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Essay on the Russian language on the topic of friendship. Class hour for primary school students with a presentation on the topic “What is friendship? What is taken for friendship?

Theme description: Remember how in the children's song?

The breeze is friends with the sun,

And dew - with the grass.

A flower is friends with a butterfly,

We are friends with you...

So, childhood is over, and now it’s school and we’ll talk about “Friendship.” Ask:

"What is friendship and my view of friendship."

What is friendship? This is joy! Great joy from communication! The joy of having someone close to you who will help you with advice, will always listen and will certainly support you in everything. Only he can be completely trusted. Only from him can you listen to criticism addressed to you without being offended.

True friendship, like true love, is a rather rare phenomenon. But if it does exist, then we must take care of it like the apple of our eye. After all, when we lose a friend, we lose a part of ourselves. And we must always remember that it is easy to lose it, but it is incredibly difficult to find it. And the older we get, the more difficult it is.

Friendship must be nurtured like a fragile and delicate flower. “Water” with thoughts about a friend, “fertilize” with worthy deeds.

What should a friend be like? Faithful! Patient! Good! Yes, exactly like that! After all, he is a Friend! A friend will be tested by both time and circumstances. And over the years, true friendship only becomes stronger.

Friendship cannot be one-sided, otherwise it is no longer friendship. Everything is common, all together! Always and everywhere!

There cannot be many friends, one, maybe two or three in a lifetime. And the rest of the dozens and hundreds are just friends, comrades, acquaintances. Yes, they are good, pleasant, wonderful, but these are not friends.

And I have a friend! Which means I'm a happy person. So I'm not alone. And he too. And together - the sea is knee-deep, together we will solve any problems, and we will not be afraid of any difficulties and adversities. After all, we are friends!

(116 words)

Friendship is a kinship of souls that binds two people with common interests and mutual sympathy, but does not tolerate betrayal, deception and falsehood.

Nagibin’s text describes the relationship between two boys, which in no way resembles friendship. The narrator does not immediately understand this, endures the arrogance and hysteria of his friend, and one day even experiences betrayal (sentences 21-24). It is at this turning point that he realizes that his comrade is a weak-willed and self-righteous liar, incapable of friendship.

Another example from literature is the relationship between Tolstoy and Tonkoy in Chekhov’s story of the same name. Thin betrays friendship by being a hypocrite and humiliating himself in front of his comrade because of class prejudices. In fact, in this case, the kinship of souls was also destroyed by the lies and mannerisms of one of the friends.

Thus, soul kinship is impossible without honest and open relationships.

Example from life

I also had a friend who was not known for his honesty. I realized this when we were playing with firecrackers. As soon as the adults discovered our joint prank, he blamed everything on me, although the idea belonged to him. After that, the friendship burned out as quickly as the fuse of a firework.

Essay 15.3 on the topic: What is friendship? According to Nagibin’s text “In our pair I was the leader”

Assignment: How do you understand the meaning of the word FRIENDSHIP? Formulate and comment on the definition you have given. Write an essay-argument on the topic “What is friendship”, using the definition you gave as the thesis.

(117 words)

Friendship is a relationship between people, supported by loyalty, the desire to help and help each other, as well as common interests and unanimous opinions. But the most important thing in friendship is the rejection of betrayal.

In the proposed text, the narrator betrays friendship by slandering a comrade (sentences 28-30). The consequences of his action were insignificant, but Pavlik lost confidence in his friend and stopped communicating forever (sentence 62), because friendship without fidelity is an empty phrase, just a superficial acquaintance.

An example from the literature on this topic is the relationship between Troekurov and Dubrovsky in Pushkin’s novel “Dubrovsky”. The rich gentleman trampled on the feelings of his comrade, encroaching on his rights. The poor but proud nobleman never forgave the insult; many years of friendship were destroyed due to betrayal.

Thus, you must be able to be friends, that is, you must never allow yourself to commit betrayal.

Example from life

There was also a similar incident in my life: a friend did not help on a test at the most decisive moment, but not because she could not: it was fundamentally important to her that everyone would get what they deserved. I would have understood it if I hadn't really prepared, but I was just sick when it was explained. As a result, I didn’t sit down with her and didn’t communicate anymore, because a true friend will always help out, which means she wasn’t one.

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Class hour for students in grades 1-4. Topic: “What is friendship? Do you know how to be friends?

Eltinova Alla Evgenievna, primary school teacher MBOU Secondary School No. 11, Volgodonsk

Description. This work touches upon the problem of “friendship”, the ability to be friends.


The material can be used by teachers and students in class, in conversations, debates with schoolchildren.
Pedagogical goal: to encourage students to talk about friendship, to reveal the idea of ​​selflessness in comradely and friendly relations.
Tasks:
- reveal the content of the concepts “friend”, “comrade”, “friendship”;
- learn to provide mutual assistance in learning and work;
- cultivate a respectful attitude towards people.
Form: collective
methods: verbal, visual, practical.
Main content of the topic, concepts and terms:
"friend", "comrade", "friendship".
Equipment: interactive complex (projector, computer, screen); musical accompaniment: audio recording “When my friends are with me” (music by V. Shainsky, lyrics by M. Plyatskovsky), “True Friend” (music by V. Shainsky, lyrics by M. Plyatskovsky), “Strong Friendship” (music by M. Plyatskovsky). B. Savelyev, lyrics by M. Plyatskovsky); presentation on the topic: “What is friendship?” During the fine arts lesson, students drew linden leaves. Tree trunk. Drawing tools.
Definitions of key concepts:
Friend- a person who has a friendship with someone.
Friendship– close relationships based on mutual trust, affection, and common interests.
Comrade- a person who is close to someone in terms of views, in terms of living conditions, as well as a person who is friendly towards someone (S.I. Ozhegov’s explanatory dictionary of the Russian language)
Literature:
1.Class hours: extracurricular activities: grades 1-4/comp. M.A. Kozlova.-M.: Publishing house “Exam”, 2009.
2. The world around us. 1st grade: lesson system based on the textbook by N.Ya. Dmitrieva, A.N. Kazakova/comp. T.V. Kovrigina. – Volgograd: Teacher, 2011.
3. Strogonova L.V. Class hours, conversations for primary schoolchildren and teenagers (education of tolerance) - M.: Pedagogical Society of Russia, 2006.
4. Class hours for grades 1–4. (Auth.-compiled by I.V. Persidskaya, G.A. Fonova, etc.) – Volgograd: Teacher, 2007.

Progress of the lesson

1.Introductory part
Mystery.
Who won't leave you in trouble?
But he won’t ask too much? (Friend.)


2. Report the topic of the lesson. Slide.1


Today we will talk about friends, friendship, camaraderie and the ability to be friends.
Slide.2
Read the epigraph on the board
If a friendship ends, it means it never existed. Mark Twain.
How do you understand this expression?
Slide.3
Listening to an audio recording with a fragment of the song “When my friends are with me”
Slide.4


Questions:
- Guys, did you like the song? With what?
- What is this song about? (about friends).
-Who is a friend?
-Do you have friends?
-Why does a person need friends?
Slide.5 Round dance

Look at the screen and tell me how you understand this “round dance”


- With whom should a person live in harmony? (With other people, with nature).


3. Main part


a).Reading poems by students about friendship.
***
The birds above are friends,
Fishes are friends in the depths,
The ocean is friends with the sky,
Children from different countries are friends.
***
Who believes in friendship fervently,
Who feels your shoulder nearby?
He will never fall
He won’t get lost in any trouble,
And if he suddenly stumbles,
Then a friend will help him get up!
Always a reliable friend in trouble
He will extend his hand.
***
Should I call a friend?
When it's dark on the road,
When the road is unrecognizable
And you don’t have the strength to go?
When there is trouble on all sides,
When it's night in the sun,
But won't he see
Won't he rush to help?
After all, he will not be able to eat and sleep,
When does this suddenly happen!
But... if you need to call a friend -
This is hardly a friend...
Valentina Kosheleva

- How does a reliable friend behave?

To support your answers, let's read quotes about friendship.
b). Reading Quotes About Friendship Slide.6
Children of the 1st row will read the quotes in a chain. We read and immediately explain how we understand these expressions.
Shout - anyone will hear, whisper - the closest one will hear, but only a true friend will hear you when you are silent...
In joy our friends recognize us; in sorrow we recognize them.
Friendship is not a service; no one is grateful for it.
It’s not the one with whom it’s good that’s dear, but the one without whom it’s bad...
If a friendship ends, it means it never existed. Mark Twain.
A true friend is someone who knows everything about you, even the worst, but still respects you.
He who boasts that he has made many friends has never had a single friend.

Guys, what do you think: are friend and comrade the same thing?
Student answers.
V). Key concepts and their meaning. Slide.7
Look at the screen. Students sitting in the 2nd row will read. (Read aloud)
A friend is a person who is connected with someone through friendship.
Friendship is a close relationship based on mutual trust, affection, and common interests.
Comrade - a person close to someone in terms of views, living conditions, as well as a person who is friendly towards someone

G). A dramatization of the story “Three Comrades” by V. Oseeva.
V. Oseeva. "Three Comrades"


Vitya lost his breakfast. During the big break, all the guys were having breakfast, and Vitya stood on the sidelines. (Author)
“Why don’t you eat?” Kolya asked him.
- Lost breakfast
“It’s bad,” said Kolya, biting off a large piece of white pie. - There’s still a long way to go until lunch!
- Where did you lose it? - Misha asked.
“I don’t know...” Vitya said quietly and turned away.
“You probably had it in your pocket, but you should put it in your bag,” said Misha.
But Volodya didn’t ask anything. He walked up to Vita, broke a piece of bread and butter in half and handed it to his comrade:
- Take it, eat it!
d). Questions:
- Which of the boys acted in a friendly manner? Why?
- Explain, can all boys be called true friends?
e). Reading and analysis of the fable by L.N. Tolstoy "Two Comrades".
L.N. Tolstoy “Two Comrades”.

Two comrades were walking through the forest, and a bear jumped out at them. One ran, climbed a tree and hid, while the other stayed on the road. He had nothing to do - he fell to the ground and pretended to be dead.
The bear came up to him and began to sniff: he stopped breathing. The bear sniffed his face, thought he was dead, and walked away.
When the bear left, he climbed down from the tree and laughed.
“Well,” he says, “did the bear talk in your ear?”
- And he told me that bad people are those who run away from a friend in danger.


e). Fable Analysis
Questions:
- Can these guys be called real friends? Why?
(Real friends don't leave you in trouble.)
- How could you have done it differently?
- What proverb fits these works?
and). Proverbs. Slide.8
Pupils of the 2nd row read in a chain and explain.
All students who wish can add answers.
Friend is known in trouble.
Don't have a hundred rubles, but have a hundred friends.
There is safety in numbers.
He who is stingy and greedy is not good in friendship.
A man without friends is like a tree without roots.
Don't be afraid of a smart enemy, but be afraid of a stupid friend.
Student answers.
Friends should help in trouble.
h). Listening to an audio recording of a fragment of the song “True Friend”(music by V. Shainsky, lyrics by M. Plyatskovsky).
Discussion of the concepts of “friend”, “friendship”, “comrade”.
Questions:

-Who is a true friend?
- How do you understand the word “friendship”?
-Who can you call a comrade?
- Guys, what qualities should a true friend have?
3.Pinning ( through performing a creative task).
In the center of the board is a tree trunk with branches, but no leaves yet. On the left and right are the words: rudeness, responsiveness, loyalty, patience, sympathy, touchiness, honesty, sneaking, greed, kindness, trust, envy, mutual understanding.
Exercise:
Name the qualities that correspond to a “true friend.”
Let's exclude words that do not relate to real friendship (children call, teacher wipes).
Now pick up the linden leaves that you drew in art class. Turn them over and write down the qualities your friend should have.
Now each of you will read the qualities that you wrote. He will go to the board and hang the leaf on the tree.
Students go to the board one by one, find a suitable place for their piece of paper, and attach their piece of paper with a magnet.


4.Micrototal.
Guys, look what a wonderful tree - a symbol of friendship, we did it!!!


This is how your friendship should be: strong, real, beautiful!!!
Of course, friends must be real: loyal, reliable, the kind that each of you dreams of. And in order to always be friends and not quarrel, you need to remember the rules of friendship.
5.Solving the crossword puzzle.


Crossword "Friendship"(On the desk)


– What do you play with your friends?
– Can you give your toy to a friend?
– Solve the crossword puzzle and read the key word.
Questions:

1. The stick is thin,
And the song in it is ringing.
(Pipe.)

2. On the blue tablecloth
Egorka is swimming -
Linen shirt,
Wooden shoes.
(Ship.)

3. My outfit is colorful,
My cap is sharp
My jokes and laughter
They make everyone happy. (Parsley.)

4. Wooden horses
They jump in the snow,
And they don’t fall into the snow.
(Skis.)

5. Blinks his eyes
The brakes squeak.
(Car.)

6. In this young lady
The sisters are hiding.
Every sister
For the smaller dungeon. (Matryoshka.)

7. You need to drive carefully
You can hold on to the horns.
The only pity is that there is no mane...
What kind of horse? (Bicycle.)

– Read the key word.
– Who can you call a friend?
– Do you have many friends?
– Can you call yourself a true friend?
Remember the rules of friendship.
6.Reading poems.
Slide 9 Rules of friendship in verse. (Students read by heart)
Help everyone who is older,
Save everyone from trouble.
Both on land and in water
Be kind always, everywhere.
* * *
Don't quarrel with your friend,
Never be jealous!
You did something bad, make it right
Be honest everywhere, always!
* * *
Say thank you
To all the people who help.
And please don't lie -
Nobody respects lies.
* * *
Be cheerful, mischievous,
Kind, polite, not evil,
Not pugnacious, not capricious -
The Fatherland will need you!
A man without friends is like a tree without roots.
7.Listen to one legend.
In ancient times, there lived one family, and peace, love and harmony reigned in it. Rumor reached the ruler of those places, and he asked the head of the family: how do you manage to live. Never quarreling, without offending each other?” The elder took the paper and wrote something on it. The ruler looked and was surprised: the same word was written a hundred times on the sheet.
What word did the elder write? Justify your answer.
Student answers. The word “understanding” was written on the sheet.
What does it mean? (i.e. treat your friend with understanding, be able to understand him, listen to him, advise him.)
Conclusion: The ability to get along with yourself and with people is the most valuable quality in a person! Don't deceive your friends, don't quarrel, value and take care of your friendship. It’s not for nothing that popular wisdom says: “If you don’t have a friend, look for him, but if you find him, take care of him.”
8.Project activities.
Exercise.
Draw a real friend next to you.

I would like to begin my discussion with the definition of the term friendship. Friendship is a close relationship based on mutual respect, care, and a willingness to share grief and joy. A friend is a person you are always happy to see. A friend is the person you can rely on, who will come to your aid in difficult times.

Seneca also wrote: “Friendship ends where mistrust begins.” Thus, he wanted to show us that friendship is based on immense trust in a person. There are often cases when a person gives his life into the hands of a friend. That's how much trust there can be among friends. After all, a friend is a person who will not betray. But if mistrust arises during a friendly relationship, then the friendship can be terminated. This is what Seneca thought.

Without true friendship, life becomes harder. Because when hard times come and a person needs support, there will be nowhere to get it from. After all, money can't buy friendship. Cicero wrote: “There is nothing better and more pleasant in the world than friendship: excluding friendship from life is the same as depriving the world of sunlight.” So a friend is another person's light.

It seems to me that every person is capable of friendship. It’s just that some people do not fully possess the qualities that are attributed to an ideal friend. However, we know that there are no ideal friends, just as there are no ideal people. Therefore, people can either be friends all their lives or quarrel, becoming enemies for a long time. Omar Khayyam also wrote that if you offend a friend, you will make an enemy, if you hug an enemy, you will gain a friend.

What is the most important thing in friendship? Of course, the ability to forgive. Understand and forgive very important moments in friendship. Without this, no friendly union will be strong.

In modern society there is an opinion that friendship is like a ghost. Everyone talks about it, but no one has really seen it. In other words, people don't really believe in friendship. But I believe that true friendship exists. I believe that friendship is the most beautiful feeling on Earth. This is a gift to humanity given from above. All ages are submissive to friendship. A friend can be a father and mother, a sister, a grandfather, or a neighbor at school.

Friendship is like family. She is strong and strong, but at the same time very fragile. Friendship is built on trust and the ability to understand and forgive a person.

A true friend is found in trouble. Because in joy everyone wants to be with you, but as soon as bad moments happen in life, then only friends remain with you.

I choose friendship and I am ready to fight for it!

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What is friendship?

The word “friendship” has many meanings, all of them are somewhat similar: “mutual affection of two or more people”, “unselfish, lasting affection based on love and respect.” Many people from different countries and eras spoke on the topic of friendship. Shota Rustaveli, Georgian poet: “Whoever leaves a friend in trouble will himself know the bitterness of troubles.” Each of us has comrades and friends. Some - for joint entertainment, some - as a vest into which to cry. But a true friend is a friend for all occasions, for any situation. For me, friendship is, first of all, loyalty and devotion. A true friend will never betray, he is always faithful to his friend and trusts him. It is very important to know that even if everyone turns away, your friend will not leave you and will always be there. A good and faithful friend will always support you, no matter how difficult the situation may be, and besides, friends are always honest with each other. As they say, “An old friend is better than two new ones.” Friendship also has to go through a lot: tears, quarrels, distance and sometimes even misunderstanding. It is very difficult to build a friendship, gain it and only then maintain it. “Friendship is a great power,” they say so for good reason, because care and mutual understanding are the most important things for people’s relationships. When, after a quarrel with a friend, you meet him, smile at him, hug him and feel that this is your home, this is your home... Or after a long trip you bring a souvenir to a friend, he smiles, his mood immediately rises, and he understands that during the trip you remembered him.

I have a friend Ksyusha, we have been friends since kindergarten, we were in a group together, we sat at the same desk together at school, later I moved to school 18, it was very difficult to get used to the new team; but a little later everything went well, Ksyusha and I are friends to this day, we rarely see each other, but when we go for a walk or come to each other for tea, we can talk for days; There were strong quarrels, sometimes they did not understand each other and fought because of this, but they could not last a day without talking to each other or writing. She understands me perfectly, what I'm thinking - she knows everything, no matter what I do, she knows it all, she knows me like no one else. I love my friend, I will try to maintain our female friendship for life...

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