People shared how they found the love of their lives. Their stories convince us that you can meet your other half anywhere. Advice from a numerologist: how to meet your love? Believe that on our globe there is definitely someone who is truly appreciated

Every person dreams of meeting his love. They say it's the feeling that makes the world go round, right? Sometimes it seems that no matter where you look, everyone has their own ideal soulmate, except you. Looking from the outside, it seems that everyone except you is floating on a wave of love. But where you are looking from, it’s somehow not very rosy.

Being single is a fantastic time of self-discovery. During the period of independence and freedom, we understand ourselves better and decide what we want from life.

However, just as people in relationships sometimes want to be alone, every single person has moments when he asks himself the eternal question: When will this happen? When will I find that same person?

The feeling of falling in love and knowing that you are loved in return cannot be compared to anything else. But what do you do when it seems like the search for love will take forever? And so we have to sit back and wait for “the one” to find us? Well, I do not.

Transform yourself into a temple of love, inner peace and happiness. This is what you can get in return.

How to show and meet your love?

This is true - LOVE CANNOT BE FORCED OR RUSHED. However, it is completely untrue that we should expect it as a result of “chance”.

Like any other aspect of life, your love life is completely under your control. You decide when you want to meet your love. AND YOU MUST DO THIS!

Everything that appears in our lives is a direct response to our thoughts and energy. If this is true, then we are responsible for the people we attract into our lives.

When we live in loneliness, anger, doubt or general negativity, how can we expect to attract anything beautiful and positive into our lives? If you want to find love, change needs to start with you.

Here are 3 things you can do to find your soulmate.

1. Believe to receive.

The first step to finding love is to believe that you are worthy of love. This may sound very simple. But ask yourself: if you already felt that you were worthy of love, why haven’t you found it yet?

Sometimes we may feel like our thoughts and actions scream love. But in fact, the doubts that we secretly hide block the way for the manifestation of our desires. So up to this point, whether unconsciously or consciously, you have been allowing your doubts to hold you back from what you want most: love.

The next time you doubt your worth or your ability to meet love, try asking yourself these three questions:

What do I doubt?An example answer is “My chance to find love.”
Has anyone else in my situation found love?An example answer is “Yes.”
How often do you think this happens around the world?An example answer is “Every second!”

Every time you start to feel doubt, ask yourself this easy set of questions. You will feel filled with positivity. Thus, helping yourself to find love much faster.

REMEMBER THAT THE WHOLE UNIVERSE IS ON YOUR SIDE!

It is known that there are more than seven billion people living on Earth, and half of them are alone. So why do all the doubts arise?

2. Learn to love yourself

This may sound like a cliche, but it's true. Until you learn to love yourself, you shouldn’t expect love.

When we fail to let go of the invisible baggage we carried from previous relationships, we ruin our chances of finding true love and happiness.

So, the first step is to get rid of the guilt or negativity. For this,on our YouTube nale there is a special meditation called “Meditation for Healing from Resentment, Pain and Guilt” Still can't forget old troubles or past relationships? You must learn to translate everything into experience and let go.

“My ex cheated on me... I don’t want to risk it, I’m afraid to feel that pain again.” Such beliefs are an example of thoughts that unintentionally attract relationships that you do not want to return to. But at the end of the day, we attract what our thoughts are focused on.

To stop these types of thoughts from showing you love, you can interpret them in a more positive way. For example, the above thought could be modified:

“Now I have the opportunity to bring a new, faithful and loving person into my life.”

If we replace negative beliefs with positive ones, our thoughts and energy can instantly transform into love and happiness. We attract what we feel.

3. Be honest about what you want.

How do you imagine your ideal man or woman?

What kind of person is this? Is he tall, dark and handsome?

Maybe he's career-minded; family oriented; sports; introvert; extrovert?

To take action in any area of our lives, we must first achieve absolute clarity about what we want.

20 years ago, American writers Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider collected advice on how a woman can get the man of her dreams in their best-selling book. Since then, the feminist movement has been revived and strengthened, and such literature has received the label “sexist.” However, “New Rules” is still being republished and finds many fans and followers. What's the secret?

For years, gurus Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider have analyzed the behavior of women who were happy in their personal lives—those who had many admirers, who were married well, and who were happy in their marriages. Oprah Winfrey called their best-selling book “Rules for Winning the Heart of the Man of Your Dreams” a phenomenon and twice invited the authors to her talk show. People magazine classified the book as a must-read, and glossy magazines called it the best publication about relationships. The authors assure: over the 20 years of the existence of the “Rules”, millions of women have been able to experience their absolute effectiveness. They received a relationship full of love and respect, which flowed into a happy and strong marriage. In New Rules, writers help modern women and girls communicate through Facebook, Skype, SMS, etc. and at the same time remain mysterious, support the hunter’s instinct in a man when there is so much “easy prey” around him, get married in an era when everyone lives in civil marriages and is in no hurry to take responsibility.

“Men love a challenge and lose interest when the object of this interest - and especially a woman - comes too easy for them.”

“The secret way to get a guy: be a challenge for him. Treat him as if you don't care about him,” urge Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider. In their opinion, it is necessary to create an atmosphere of mystery and make a man passionately desire to meet you, which is very rare these days. “The Rules is a way of communicating with any man (provided he is the first to start a conversation with you, in person or online) that makes him obsessed with you and ready for a serious relationship.”

How to Marry the Man of Your Dreams, According to Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider

Be a girl different from the rest and look like a girl different from the rest.

Do not approach a man first and do not start a conversation, do not call or write to a man first.

Do not ask men out on a date via SMS, social networks or any other means.

Wait at least 4 hours before responding to a man's first message, and at least half an hour before responding to each subsequent message.

“We’ll talk/write later”: always finish everything first - and disappear from sight!

Do not respond to SMS or any other messages after midnight.

Don't accept an invitation to a Saturday date later than Wednesday. “Proper girls” lead busy lives. Surely you've already made your weekend plans before Thursday rolls around! If he invites you too late, don't reprimand him. Just say that you are very sorry, but you are busy.

Make yourself "invisible" for instant messaging. Even if nothing is happening in your life, you should not notify the guy about it by instantly responding to his messages. As with any other form of communication, he must wait for the opportunity to talk to you. To be interesting to you, he will have to work hard. Don’t deprive your man of this opportunity by immediately responding to messages and spending hours online! Remember, you have your own life (school, work, friends, hobbies, workouts and, hopefully, dates), and there is only 10 minutes left for chatting and no more. If a guy has a lot to tell you and a lot to ask, he can do it during a date!

Don't spend 24 hours a day, seven days a week with him.

Long-distance relationships: let him offer to communicate more often on Skype and visit you.

Don't text men first, ignore emoticons and winks on online dating sites.

Don't pay for dinner or buy his love in any way.

Don't be self-destructive when dating married men. If he wants to see you, tell him to call you when he becomes single. And after that, no communication, forget him, say “next!” - and focus on finding men who are truly free.

Don't date a man who cancels your dates more than once.

Do not send a man anything that would be unpleasant to leave with him in the event of your separation.

Don't settle for one-night stands or meaningless relationships.

Don't rush to sleep with a man. “The right girl” makes a guy wait to help him fall in love with her, with her soul, with her essence - and not just with her body. The longer you delay intimacy, the longer he will be able to look after you, plan romantic encounters and dream about you. Men love challenges and don't appreciate anything that comes too easily to them, especially sex!

Don't date a man without commitment! If your relationship lasts more than a year and at the same time it is “correct” (you allowed the man to “chase you”, met him no more than 2-3 times a week, refused to spend vacations with him, did not move in with him), then most helped him fall in love with you and want to get married. A man wants to see you more and more. But if after a year of dating a man has not asked to marry him, you should tell him that you are a girl of an old-fashioned upbringing and are not going to date anyone forever. If he starts making excuses, suggest taking a break in the relationship. Ask him to think things through alone and call when he's ready to commit.

My love with my husband sleeps in his crib and snores quietly... Our love story began in the fall of 2011 - from a dating site. Before that, I was wary of such sites and did not believe in the success of such an enterprise, until friends and acquaintances began to tell me stories that ended in weddings. And I also decided to try my luck. I had admirers and even proposed marriage, but I felt that all this was not right, and my heart continued to look for its soul mate.

One evening I was sitting on a dating site, answering regular letters from suitors—some were interested in me, but I didn’t even notice others. My heart was heavy, because on that day our relatives experienced grief - their son died. I was very sad. One guy wrote me a letter. I was thinking: should I answer or not? As a result, I wrote to him, to which he replied that he had also recently lost his grandfather. That's how we supported each other and had a heart-to-heart talk. Then our correspondence with him began, long conversations on the phone and our first meeting...

I was very worried, I thought whether I would like him, since there had been meetings before and no one touched my heart. I carefully prepared for the first date, I picked out a beautiful and at the same time not provocative outfit: I wanted to please him. And so we met with him, watched a film, and after the film we talked and listened to music. We liked each other at first sight, and I immediately realized that this was my soulmate, a part of me.

Our relationship developed very rapidly. Just 2 months later I met his parents, they invited me to the festive table, and on New Year’s Day my future husband came to meet my parents. To our surprise, his and my parents were born and raised in the same area, moms and dads were somewhat similar, they had the same interests...

Soon he arrived with a bouquet of pink roses, confessed his love to me and asked my parents for my hand in marriage. I answered yes! There was an engagement in the winter, and a beautiful one took place in the summer. After 9 months, our wonderful son was born. We celebrated our first anniversary this summer. I love my husband very much, who has become so dear to me!

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Gulnara

Comment on the article "How I met my love. The story of a happy family"

I think it is absolutely necessary to give readers the main thing - the name of the dating site, or, at worst, the address of the wedding salon :)
And it’s true - there’s nothing to talk about :)
Anyway - congratulations :)

12/16/2013 07:33:48, write more

who doesn't want pizza in the dead of night???)))

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I'm alone because I'm not like that

Many people who cannot find their love for a long time tend to believe that the whole point is that they are not good enough.

A woman may think that she is not as beautiful as those married ladies, not as slim, not as smart, not as interesting as them.

Low self-esteem is often hidden and secret. That is, a woman can look quite confident in herself, she can tell everyone that she believes in her beauty and knows that she is the best. But in fact, have very low self-esteem.

Does loneliness lead to low self-esteem or does low self-esteem lead to loneliness?

Definitely the second.

Low self-esteem leads to loneliness. A person with low self-esteem is less successful in all areas of their life than people who truly love themselves and consider themselves worthy of all blessings.

A lonely woman with low self-esteem can be much more beautiful, smarter and more interesting than another, “busy” woman. But the second woman has one advantage: she considers herself worthy of love.

She doesn’t think that she is more beautiful than anyone, no, she just knows deep down in her soul that she is worthy of a man’s attention, for her being in a couple is normal and taken for granted.

Therefore, the first advice that can be given to lonely people is to take a closer look at your self-esteem. Now there are a large number of books, trainings and online courses that will help you become more confident. The simplest thing you can do right now, today, is to start using this positive affirmation:

"I'm good enough to be loved by an amazing free man"

Where have all the normal men gone?

By the way, one of the indicators of low self-esteem is affairs with married men. Women, run from this like fire.

You deserve to be loved and sought after by free men.

If you think that there are no available men around you or that all of your peers are married, I assure you, this is just another negative attitude. And the faster you get rid of it, the faster you will meet your love.

This new installation will help you:

“I see around me a lot of free, worthy men who suit me”

If there are a lot of free men around you, but there are none, in your opinion, “worthy”, then this means:

You don't see him.
You haven't come up with it yet.

Let's start with the first point and look at how you can start seeing worthy candidates.

Practice: decent men are everywhere

I did this interesting practice myself when I was single. At that time, I realized that I simply didn’t like men. They all really pissed me off. Everyone is poorly dressed, earns little, lacks initiative... in general, the whole package.

Well, how can you meet someone here?

I decided to change my point of view and try to find something good in every man I meet along the way.

I was riding in public transport this morning and looking at all the male representatives.

I thought like this: “here is a guy in a white T-shirt, he is so tall, I love tall men, how great it is that we have such handsome guys in our country.”

“But here is a middle-aged man, probably a very caring father, going to work after taking the children to school.”

“And this guy smells so good, there are such clean people!”

This practice helped me remove negativity from the male sex and see that there are enough good men around, you just have to look closely.

How to come up with your man?

It may seem strange to you that I am writing to you about the need to invent your own man.

Yes, I know - this is very far from materiality and, in general, from the standard view of the world.

This is the power of thought. This is metaphysics. This is esoteric. Call it whatever you like.

But you can come up with and then attract your man. You must do it! Thousands of women have already done this. So can you.

I believe that I myself came up with my man. I did this using a list.

For more information about how to meet your soulmate, watch the video

I got everything that I took into account on my list, and everything that I didn’t take into account too). So my advice is: spend a couple of weeks on it, don’t rush. Learn all the subtleties.

I don't know how this list works. But the fact remains that I personally know more than 5 women for whom this list worked. I have also read over 50 posts online, in articles and on forums about how these lists have worked for other women.

I myself met my man 6 months after writing the list. And I realized that it was him about a year later.

And if your most cherished, strongest desire is to meet your loved one, I will tell you how to realize this desire. Join my free master class and already

10 reasons for your loneliness

This article turns out to be very practical because I don’t like empty words. It’s better to start working right away and get results, don’t you agree?

Then take a piece of paper and a pen and write down 10 or more reasons why, in your opinion (in your opinion, not in the opinion of your mother or friends), you are now alone.

For example, these could be the following reasons:

I already have a child and it turns men off.
I'm not too pretty.
I am overweight (or have other physical “disadvantages”).
I'm ill.
I don't go anywhere and don't meet people.
I can't carry on a conversation.
I attract men only physically.
I work too much and get tired.
I'm too strong and independent.
We have a women's team.
Our town and village are too small.
I am too smart for the men around me (they are too stupid for me).
Nobody gets to know me.
I have bad karma.

Don’t write the reasons for “there are no worthy men” and “there are only married people around”, we have already dealt with them. Now we have a lot of worthy and free men around us. At least you will notice this after a couple of weeks of working with new beliefs.

So, take a look at this scary and terrible list of reasons why you are still alone.

Realize that as long as there are these reasons, you will be alone. Or rather, until these reasons live in your head- you will be left alone.

To meet your love, you need to restructure yourself mentally. Change your thinking. For something to change, these reasons must cease to be reasons.

That is, you need to change your perspective.

Firstly, you yourself know that all these reasons are imposed on you by society, friends, television, films.

Secondly, subconsciously you understand that God can give you “your person”, no matter what the reasons.

In fact, there are no reasons.

I can debunk each of these reasons by simply talking about women who are married and have beloved men, despite children from previous marriages, despite being overweight, having a female group, despite being in a small town and being a homebody.

All your reasons are far-fetched!

And if you continue to believe in them, you yourself will ruin your life.

Well, you can choose your thoughts yourself!

Let's rewrite all this negativity and replace it with the thoughts we need.

I already have a child and this is a huge plus, I have shown myself to be a good mother and my beloved will appreciate it.
For my man, I am the most beautiful, he is looking for someone just like me.
I am at the ideal weight, my lover likes me exactly like that.
My illnesses are not a hindrance, because a man loves me for my spiritual beauty and warmth.
I don’t need to go anywhere, my dear person will come to me himself or I will accidentally meet him at work or in a store.
I can easily carry on a conversation.
I only attract single men who want to start a family.
I work hard, and my man will appreciate my efforts, he doesn’t like slackers.
I am very strong and independent and my man really likes this quality.
We have a female team and this is wonderful, female communication is useful for my femininity. And I will meet the man in another place.
We have a small city, but despite this there are many business travelers and tourists, many visitors, among them you can always find the right man.
I'm smart and I'll meet a smart man.
Men are starting to get acquainted with me because they feel my inner vibrations of love and happiness, they are drawn to me.
In my karma there is a long and happy marriage and love for life.

Reread your new beliefs, rewrite them, or repeat them to yourself.

You can also create questions with new beliefs using this method:

Keep in mind that desires do not come true instantly; to completely restructure your thinking you may need several months to a year of regular work with beliefs.

In this article, I described in detail how to behave during periods of waiting for results:

H what to do for those for whom nothing worked?

So, here we are at the most “metaphysical” metaphysics and now we will talk about vibrations.

If you are having trouble with your thoughts, start working with your feelings.

Your body and soul are always vibrating. At different times they vibrate at different frequencies. The frequency and strength of vibrations depends on your emotional state and your thoughts (in fact, there are many other things, but now it is important for us to sort out thoughts and emotions).

Now I'll give the floor to Jerry Hicks and his otherworldly friend (we're talking about Channeling):

If you are constantly looking for something pleasant to focus your attention on, then all your desires will be satisfied.

But if you feel unhappy, worried that you won't find your spouse, you can't make your desire come true.

If you don't have a spouse or are trying to find one, you need to do the following:

You must make sure that your thoughts about your relationship with your partner are in harmony with what your Inner Being thinks about it.

If your strongest vibration comes from the feeling of not having the relationship you want, then you won't be able to have it.

The vibration of no relationship and the vibration of a desired relationship are too different.

It is impossible to find a solution to a problem if the most active vibration emanating from you contains information about the problem itself.

It all comes down to the fact that you need to learn to emit a vibration that matches the relationship you want, and not the one that doesn't exist.

You must ignore the lack of a relationship, otherwise you will not have one. That's the trick.

The core part of your vibration should be what you desire (to be loved and joyful), not what you don't have.

As soon as stable vibrations of what you want begin to emanate from you, what you want and what you have will mix, and your dreams will come true.

Controlling how you feel, how you feel about things, other people, or situations is the key to not only lasting happiness, but to everything you desire. It's really worth a try.

Simply put, if you are unhappy with yourself or your life, being in a relationship with the opposite sex will only increase disharmony, because any action taken due to lack of something is always ineffective.

If you are not currently in a relationship with the opposite sex, then this is a great chance to bring yourself into a harmonious state before you attract another person who will undoubtedly enhance your emotional state.

We advise you now to start concentrating on the positive aspects of your life, try to alleviate the inconvenience caused by the absence of a desired partner, try to make your life as good as possible and begin to value yourself.

We guarantee that once you truly love yourself and stop constantly feeling sad due to the lack of a life partner, you will find your other half. And this is also the Law.

You can get where you want to go by starting to move right now. You just need to stop spending so much time focusing on unpleasant things, on where you are, and talking about it.

Be more selective and make a list of the positive qualities in your life.

Put your attention where you want to be and don't waste time complaining about your current situation.

The Universe, which always responds to your requests, does not distinguish between thoughts about a given situation and thoughts about the subject of dreams. You create with your positive thoughts. And therefore, there will be no benefit from thinking, remembering, talking about what you don’t want, and from any attempt to pay attention to it. Keep your active vibration aligned with what you want, focusing on how quickly your life will change so that you can become the Vibrational Match of your desire.

Let me add, to start emitting the right vibrations, you need to:

rejoice that you will soon meet your loved one;
thank the Universe for what you have now, for what was;
love yourself and radiate love into the world.

You need to practice such “pleasant” states at least once a day.

Bottom line. How to meet your love?

I’ll summarize the article and once again tell you point by point what you need to do to meet your love:

We need to change our thinking.

Identify all those thoughts that leave you lonely and replace them with new thoughts.

In general, after a few months, your colleagues and girlfriends should no longer recognize you, because you no longer grind men’s bones, scold them and do not complain about your lonely fate.

Now you are sure that there are plenty of suitable men around, you are attractive enough for them and will get married very soon. And you have no reason to be alone anymore. But you have a list of reasons why you will soon meet your person.

Thoughts can be changed in different ways:

rewrite new phrases every day,
do self-hypnosis,
engage in self-hypnosis,
sing songs with new beliefs,
record your thoughts on a voice recorder and listen to them,
Read your new settings out loud every day before going to bed.

2. You need to change your vibrations.

Now you are happy and rejoice more often than you cry. Or rather, this: you don’t remember the last time you were sad.

You are no longer burdened by your loneliness and this is no longer a problem.

Now you perceive this period of time as an excellent opportunity to do your own business, sports and favorite hobbies.

You do love meditations and work on your self-esteem.

And of course, give yourself flowers and gifts, take a bubble bath and go for a massage.

We need to invent a man.

You have a detailed list of 50-100 points about what kind of man you have, what he does and how he treats you. You also did not forget to write that he has been single for a long time and dreams of starting a family. He doesn’t drink, is very well mannered and earns good money...

That's all.

And if you want to know how I attract what I want into my life, come to my master class

Now you know how to meet your love. And I believe that within a year your wish will come true!

“We worked together and barely communicated. He was very modest, and people who are silent make me nervous. One day I asked him about his hobbies, just to find out something about him. He replied that he was not interested in anything and usually stayed at home. I said that I’m also not interested in anything and “let’s do something together.” I don’t even know how it came out in the first place; I had no idea that there could be a continuation.

We've been together for 11 years. The moral of the story is don’t expect fireworks and celebration, sometimes you’ve known each other for a long time, but don’t immediately realize that you’re much better together.”

2. When the sun rose, we kissed goodbye and she went home.

“I was dating her friend at the time. She herself was modest and taciturn. I ended up breaking up with my girlfriend and a month later I asked her out. When she realized that she could trust me, she began to tell me everything. That evening I felt bad and she came to my house. We talked all night. When the sun rose, we kissed goodbye and she went home. We've been together for eight years now."

3. It was love at first date

“When we met, I didn’t immediately realize that I loved her, but after a couple of hours I realized. We were very similar, and even our life lessons and goals were the same. Years later, everything remains the same. If she were a man, she would have become my best friend, but I just married her.”

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4. He sat in a Pikachu suit

“This guy was sitting behind me in higher mathematics lectures. One day I turned around to hand him a paper for a test, and he came to the institute wearing a full-length Pikachu Pokemon costume! He noticed my laughter and asked, ‘What happened?’ That was almost 10 years ago.”

5. It was love at first sight

“When I first saw my husband, it seemed to pierce me with the realization that he was my soul mate. I just realized that the upcoming move to another country for work, all the expenses associated with it (exams, visas) - all this does not matter. Then he was in a relationship, and I decided to wait without confessing to anyone. Two months later he was released and we started dating. Seven years of marriage and two children.”

6. He annoyed me, I didn’t want a second date

“It was a blind date. I didn’t like that he answered calls and told me who should come where (he was a volunteer in some fund). Moreover, he lived far from me. He annoyed me and I didn’t want a second date. But a mutual friend persuaded me to give him a second chance. For me, it was a date that I could easily leave after an hour, but it lasted eight. Now we are married."

7. We both didn’t want anything special.

“I went on a date with him with full confidence that I could leave at any moment. It turned out that he also thought that the date would be the last, because I was too good for him and he did not expect consent. In the end, it turned out that on the second date we decided to get married.”

8. I was hooked

“One day my friend and I prepared dinner, but there was more food than for two men. And then I saw a pretty neighbor walking home with a large bag. I walked out and asked if she wanted to join us. She replied: “No, thanks, I have a bag full of food,” and went to her room, and I realized that I was lost. A couple of weeks later I asked her out and we’ve been together ever since.”