Lesson on OPK "Christian family". About family values in military education classes Lesson notes on military education Christian family

Sections: Primary School

Lesson objectives:

a) educational: to form in students an idea of a Christian family.
b) developing: develop communicative abilities, positive emotions and feelings related to the topic of the lesson.
c) educational: to cultivate the moral duty of children to their parents, representatives of the older generation, and mutual respect for each other.

During the classes

I. Organizational moment.

“The radiant sun is not divided into parts
And the eternal land cannot be divided,
But a spark of happiness from a golden ray
You can, you can give it to your friends.”

– They say that a good mood always helps to cope with any task and achieve good results. Smile at each other, and let a good, good mood reign in our lesson.

II. Updating basic knowledge.

– Who in the world is for a child?
Wiser and kinder than everyone else?
Whose hands are always at work?
Whose hair is gray?
Who, forgetting business, worries,
Did you come to see us the other day? (Grandmother)
- Who wears glasses and sits with a newspaper?
Reads everything: this and that?
Who on Saturday early in the morning
Going fishing?
Who loves Domino?
Does he scold politicians?
Who is not joking, but seriously
Will a nail teach us to hammer? (Grandfather)
Who will teach you to be brave?
If you fall off your bike, don’t whine,
And scratched my knee,
Don't cry? Of course... (Dad)
– Who is always early in the morning
Ironing, knitting, washing, sewing?
Who will wave his hand out the window?
Who sings for joy?
Rushes to the hairdresser
This someone sometimes.
And in my own eyes it shines
Tenderness and love always. (Mother)
They love mom, they love dad,
They love grandparents.
They talk about everything in the world.
Who is this? These are kids)

– What one word can unite everyone mentioned in the riddle? (Family)

– The Christian family remembers the words from the New Testament: “bear one another’s burdens, and thus fulfill the law of Christ” ( burdens- from the word burden: heaviness, burden).

– Is it difficult to stay married to a person who has lost his beauty, youth, and health? Of course it's difficult. Therefore, before making a decision about marriage, you need to weigh the measure of your love. – If you think that you are loved, come to the family of the person you have chosen and see how he (she) treats his parents, his grandparents, and his younger children. If in this house they kick a grandmother, throw away kids, and don’t care about the requests of weak family members, don’t take either a bride or a groom from such a house. – Anyone who has not learned to love in his parents’ home will not be able to love when he starts his own family.

– Honor and respect for parents is at all times the basis of decency and the main asset of our people. One of the commandments says: “Honor your father and your mother, and it will be good for you, and you will live long on earth.”

- What do you mean it will be good for you? (will be good) (Slide 16)

– What is the main condition for longevity? (respect for parents)

– This is one of the main rules for every person. Show concern for your parents.

– Family is the world of the closest people. Love, care, harmony and respect for parents are the basis of the family. I want you to learn a very important thing in your life - learn to thank those who do a lot of good for you - close and dear people

(filling out the line: “Respect for parents and older family members”).

– Loving children is also not easy. You yourself know how obnoxious you can be. And yet, the birth of a child and the miracle of his growth is what fills family life with light and meaning. (Slide 17)

– People used to say: “A family without children is like a flower without a scent.” . What thought did the Russian proverb lead us to?

(We are loved in the family not for something, but for the fact that we were born, for the fact that we are).

– You are daughters and sons, you are grandchildren, nephews and nieces. They love you for this already. The birth of a child fills family life with light, joy, and meaning.

(filling the line: « Children , joy").

Options assignment.

– Read your stories yourself and prepare an answer to the question (orally).

1 option

There lived a potter in one village. He was a famous master; important gentlemen came to him with orders. And among the neighbors it was considered a matter of honor to keep dishes made by this potter in the house. In a word, the master’s products were highly valued by everyone.
The potter sculpted it himself, painted it himself, and fired it himself. And his assistants were sons and daughters, and a wife - a golden soul. They will rise in the sun, pray, and get to work. Some heat the stoves, some knead the clay, and some draw flowers and cockerels. They work and sing, they sing and work.
If the cart's wheels are spinning, that's business
Harness your horse to the cart and go about your business boldly,
Hey, hey, don't be lazy,
Hey hey, smile!
If the wheels are spinning, then there is no need to grieve,
If the work is difficult, you need to sing together,
Hey, hey, don't be lazy,
Hey hey, smile!

Question: Prayer and song united all members of the potter's family. Think about what else is the connecting link for everyone in this family?

– In a potter’s family, in addition to prayer and song, the connecting link is work. Everyone in the family worked, even small children.

(filling out the line: “Everyone’s work”; “Common cause.”)

Option 2

Livedtwo brothers. The eldest was married and had children. And the youngest was single. The brothers did not want to live together and divided everything they had. When they divided the grain, the pits in which it was stored ended up with the elder on one side of the mill, and with the younger on the other.
The elder brother secretly took grain from his hole and poured it into his brother's hole, saying:
“God gave me a wife and children, I have someone to earn my bread.” And my brother has no one. Let him eat this bread.
But the younger brother also took grain from his hole and secretly poured it into the hole of his elder brother, saying:
“I’m alone on earth, no matter where I wander, I can easily find food.” My brother has a family, he needs more than me. Let this bread go to him.
They lived like this all their lives. God increased the good of both brothers, and the share of each did not become scarce. The Lord always helps in good and good deeds.

Question: Why did God increase the goodness of both the older and the younger brother?

– God increased the goodness of each of the brothers, as both helped each other. Everyone cared not about themselves, but about their brother.

(filling the line: “Brotherly love”, “Moral duty”.)

– Look, our concept of “family” has been enriched with very meaningful words. Let's read them out loud. These components are necessary for a Christian family to be friendly and strong.

– To maintain a close-knit family, it is very important that it has common events and holidays, and that family traditions are observed. What are family traditions? (Slide 18,19)

– The life of the Orthodox Church has its own calendar. And when the whole family celebrates Easter and Christmas together, of course, on such days people become closer and dearer to each other.

– What traditions and holidays do you have in your family? (Slide 20)

(filling in the line “Traditions and holidays”)

– Guys, look carefully at how many components are needed for a family to be happy, friendly, and strong.

– Family life is an extraordinary work, and in order for this work not to be burdensome, you need to follow some rules. Let's get acquainted with the “Rules of Life”, the implementation of which leads to mutual understanding. (Slide 21)

(Students have strips on their desks on which the rules are written. Read the rules one by one.)

Put other people's interests above your own.
Be devoted to your family, avoid the possibility of betraying it.
When respecting other people, respect yourself.
Be tolerant of other people's points of view.
Know how to forgive and don’t be offended.
Live in harmony with yourself and other people.
Be sensitive.
Be free from lies and deception.
Strive to do everything as best as possible.
Treat people as your equals.

V. Lesson summary.

- Tell me, guys, what were we talking about today?

– What do you think are the characteristics of a Christian family?

- I ask you to form a circle. Hold hands. Look how many components we have brought into such a concept as “Family”. And yet, say now just one value for family happiness (in a circle).

– Is it possible to get by with one of these concepts in order for the family to be happy, strong, and friendly? Of course not!

– I would like to wish you, your parents and representatives of the older generation health and success. Let your families smile more often. Give your warmth and care to your parents, grandparents, and all your loved ones. Know how to forgive and remember no evil. (Slide 22, 23)

Homework(optionally):

1. – Guess the crossword puzzle:

Vertically: 1. The name that Fevronia received as a monk. 2. The city where Saints Peter and Fevronia lived and were glorified.

Horizontally: 3. The name of a Murom peasant woman who became the wife of a prince and glorified by the Church. 4. The name of the prince, Fevronia’s wife. 5. The name received by Prince Peter as a monk.

2. – Write a mini-essay on the topic: “Traditions of my family.”

3.– Draw up your family tree with your parents.

Branch of MBOU Secondary School with. Terbuny in the village. Pokrovskoe

Tebu district, Lipetsk region

Development of a lesson in 4th grade according to the course

"Fundamentals of world religious cultures and secular ethics."

Module “Fundamentals of Orthodox Culture.”

Teacher: Lyutova Tatyana Vasilievna.

Lesson topic:"Christian Family"

Target: to form basic ideas about Christian marriage and the norms of relationships in the family.

Tasks: Reveal the essence of Orthodox marriage through Christian values.

To form ideas about the spiritual components of a Christian family.

Introduce the true feeling of love as an important component of a happy family relationship.

Show the importance of family traditions as a connecting thread between generations.

Develop an understanding of the importance of maintaining good relationships with loved ones through your participation, responsiveness and help.

Planned results:

Subject:

Understand and accept the value components of a Christian family;

Understand the importance of religious morality in building favorable relationships in the family.

Metasubject:

Express your opinion and argue your point of view based on social experience;

Master the logical actions of analysis, comparison, and reasoning;

Possess the skills of meaningful reading of texts, conscious construction of speech statements.

Personal:

Experience feelings of goodwill and emotional and moral responsiveness, understanding and empathy for the feelings of loved ones;

Realize your social role in the family and personal responsibility for your actions based on ideas about the moral standards of a Christian family.

Lesson type: discovery of new knowledge.

Forms of student work:

Frontal, work in pairs, dialogue;

Reading and analysis of text and illustrative material;

Carrying out creative tasks;

Equipment: textbook by A. Kuraev “Fundamentals of Orthodox culture” grades 4–5, magnetic board and magnets, computer, interactive whiteboard, computer, presentation, flower with 10 petals, tree of Obedience.

During the classes.

SLIDE 1.

Organizational stage.

Emotional mood of students to work together with the teacher

Guys, smile, give your smiles, and with them your good mood, to your comrades, guests and me. And I wish us all fruitful work in the lesson.

SLIDE 2.

II. Checking homework completion.

In the last lesson we talked about the beatitudes.

What means bliss? blissful? (happiness, happy)

What beatitudes did Christ give to people?

SLIDE 4.

Now let's remember the 10 commandments that God gave to Moses.

A game“Flower” (10 petals. 10 commandments).

SLIDE 5.

The Ten Commandments of the Law are limited to prohibiting doing what is sinful. The Beatitudes teach us how we can achieve Christian perfection or holiness.

The Ten Commandments were given in Old Testament times to keep wild and rude people from evil. The Beatitudes were given to Christians to show them what spiritual disposition they should have in order to draw closer and closer to God and gain holiness, and at the same time bliss, that is, the highest degree of happiness.

Why were the commandments given to people? (so they can be happy)

SLIDE 6.

What kind of happy person is this? (If a person is not proud in front of others, treats people with love, strives to be truthful, acts according to his conscience, lives in peace with everyone.)

Sh. Studying new material.

SLIDE 7.

The teacher reads V. Berestov’s poem “They loved you without special reasons.”

Loved you for no special reason

Because you are a grandson,

Because you are a son,

Because baby

Because you are growing,

Because he looks like mom and dad.

And this love until the end of your days

It will remain your secret support.

What words in the poem touched your heart?

How do you understand the meaning of the words: “And this love will remain your secret support until the end of your days”?

Where do you get this love? (in family)

Family. This word warms the soul. It reminds us of a mother’s gentle voice and a father’s caring sternness. In the family you are a welcome child. Here you have been given the holy name.

You and I are growing up in a family circle,

The basis of the foundations is the parental home.

All your roots are in the family circle,

And you come out of this family into life.

In the family circle we create life,

The basis of the foundations is the parental home

I think you guessed what we're going to talk about today?

(We will talk about family.)

SLIDE 8.

– That’s right, today we will expand our understanding of the concept of “family”, we will see what it includes, what categories are included in the concept of “Christian family”. The topic of our lesson: “Christian family. Honoring parents."

– Now open page 86 of the textbook. Read the first sentence in a whisper.

SLIDE 9.

(The family is our home, our protection, our support. The family will protect us from troubles and adversity.)

Confucius, one of the most famous sages, who lived in China in the 6th-5th centuries BC, wrote: “The state is a big family, and the family is a small state, and it rests on love. Is it necessary to say why a person has a family? I think everyone will answer differently (children's answers), but one simple and true thought will probably be heard - for happiness.

SLIDE 10.

- Teacher's story and work with the text of the textbook (selective reading).

A family is created by two people who love each other.

There is an ancient legend that once upon a time, large, talented, strong people lived on earth. They lived happily. And some evil spirit envied them, and divided each of them into two halves. He made one half a woman and the other half a man. Since then, separated people have been wandering around the world, looking for their other half. If found, a very strong feeling arises - love, a family is formed, children appear in the family. The greater the love, the stronger the family. The stronger the family, the happier the children.

SLIDE 11 -12.

For a long time in Rus', Orthodox people who decided to start a family got married in church. Wedding is one of the most important sacraments of the Orthodox Church. The wedding of future spouses is performed by a priest who blesses the bride and groom for a happy family life. The young people promise to love each other, take care of each other, never leave each other in trouble or illness, and never violate the sacred union of marriage. Crowns are placed on the heads of the bride and groom during the wedding . On page 86 of the textbook, find answers to the following questions:

What are the meanings of a crown?

Why is the crown shaped like a ring?

(children's answers)SLIDE 13--16.

Tell me, what of the material you read was new to you? What was surprising? (children's answers)

SLIDE 17.

You must learn to love in your parents’ home, otherwise love will not take root in your new adult family. Anyone who has not learned to love in his parents' home will not be able to love when he creates his own family.

The Christian family remembers the words from the New Testament. Read them on page 87

Discussion of the meaning of the Russian folk proverb:

At home you should have looked up proverbs about family.

Name them.

SLIDE 18.

(Working with proverbs and sayings

1. Parental love is stronger than stone walls.

2. He who honors his parents never disappears.

4. What is a treasure for when there is harmony in the family?

9. The family is strong together.

10. Take a good wife - you won’t know either boredom or grief.

12. Maternal anger is like spring snow.

14. There is no sweeter friend than my dear mother.

15. When the sun is bright, when Mother is good.)

Leading a house is not a matter of shaking one's sleeves.

When the family is together and the heart is in the right place.

Children are not a burden, but a joy.

Family troubles will lead to trouble.

In your own family the porridge is thicker.

What is the treasure for, if there is harmony in the family?

With small children it’s woeful, with big children it’s twice as bad.

If you knew how to give birth to a child, you also know how to teach it.

He who does not abandon his children does not die.

SLIDE 19--21.

- People said: “A family without children is like a flower without a scent.” What thought did the Russian proverb lead us to? (Slide 3)

(You are loved in your family not for something, but for the fact that you were born, for the fact that you are.)

Now parents' main concern is that their children grow up to be good people. They spare no effort or time for this.

Everyone in the family has their own responsibilities. The most difficult responsibilities lie with parents. Their love and patience achieve family happiness, and their constant work achieves prosperity and well-being.

Tell each other your responsibilities in the family.

Teacher: Constant thoughts about you, even if you are not nearby; prayer for your health, success, happiness. Get along, get along, get along, get along... All these are good signs of a family.

Place your palm on a blank sheet of paper, circle it, write in the contours of your fingers the names of the relatives who love you.

Tell us why your family loves you.

SLIDE 22.

IV. Application of knowledge and methods of action. (Moral situational game).

"Magic necklace with four rays."

The Sun saw a sick Girl. I felt sorry for the Sunny Girl. The Sun bent over her head and quietly whispered:

- Take, Girl, a magic necklace with four rays. You can make four unhappy people happy. Whoever you direct the beam at will become happy. A magic necklace lies on the Girl’s chest, four rays play on the wall.

- To whom should we direct the happy rays? - the Girl thinks.

The girl sighed heavily: grandmother, grandfather, mother and father were unhappy: grandmother’s tooth hurts, grandfather’s bed creaks, father drinks vodka, mother sheds tears.

The girl directed the beam at her grandmother - and her tooth immediately stopped hurting. She directed the beam at grandfather - the bed stopped creaking. Pointed it at dad - dad stopped drinking vodka. She directed the beam at mom - mom stopped shedding tears and smiled joyfully. The girl forgot about herself and her illness. But when all the people became happy, the girl became the happiest and the disease left her.

- Think about who you could point the magic necklace at? Why?

( Children are given a necklace. They express their thoughts.)

V. Physical education minute.

(All movements are repeated after the teacher).

SLIDE 23--25.

On a hot spring day, a goose took her little yellow geese for a walk.

She showed the kids the big world for the first time. This world was bright, green, joyful.

The goose began to teach the children to pluck the tender stems of young grass. The stems were sweet, the sun was warm, the world was kind.

Suddenly dark clouds moved in and the first large drops of rain fell to the ground. The goslings thought that the world was not so cozy and kind. The goslings ran to their mother.

She raised her wings and covered her children with them. Meanwhile, large hailstones fell from the sky. It was warm and safe under the wings. It never occurred to the goslings that the wing had two sides: it was warm inside, and cold and dangerous outside.

When everything calmed down, the goslings ran out onto the grass. They saw that the mother’s wings were wounded and many feathers were torn out. She tried to spread her wings, but nothing worked. But it never occurred to the goslings to ask:

“Mom, what’s wrong with you?”

Yellow goslings scattered on the grass. The sun was shining. The bees and bumblebees sang beautifully. And Mother Goose was happy.

This is the legend created by folk wisdom. There is no love stronger than a mother's.

It happens in life that many people, just like the goslings in the legend, forget their duty to their parents.

Since ancient times in Rus', families have been large and strong. Elders were respected and honored. Who remembers which commandment of God speaks of honoring parents?

What does the fifth commandment sound like? (Honor your father and your mother, so that it may go well with you and that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.) Let's read it together. (slide 13)

SLIDE 26.

SLIDE 27 --28.

Many proverbs and sayings speak about love and respect for one’s parents. One of them is “Whoever honors his parents never perishes.”

SLIDE 30.

This also applies to all senior mentors, your teachers, your grandparents. What must a person do to fulfill this commandment? (Children's answers) He must love and take care of his relatives, help them in their needs, obey them. Take care of them with patience and humility during illness and old age. Respect them and try to bring them joy and comfort through your actions, deeds, studies, and work. After all, the greatest happiness for parents is when people thank them for a good son or daughter.

The fifth commandment is the only commandment for the fulfillment of which God promises a person a long and happy life in a happy family. And in order to fulfill the fifth commandment every day, each of us must have responsibilities to our parents. What responsibilities might children have? (Children's answers) Water the flower, take out the trash, put away the toys, learn homework, take care of your things, etc.

Happy is the family in which all responsibilities are performed with joy.

But the most important honor is …

Let's find out by solving the crossword puzzle.

In Orthodox culture lessons, we got acquainted with new words. I suggest you relax a little and, having solved the crossword puzzle, remember what they mean. (Slide 7)

SLIDE 31.

A person who reveals the will of God to people. (Prophet)

A sacred image (image) that is revered. (Icon)

A sacred book consisting of psalms. (Psaltar)

A specially designated place for singers. (Choir)

A Christian who accepted death, not wanting to renounce his faith in Christ. (Martyr)

Where does good and evil live in a person? (Soul)

Deep consciousness of one's sin. (Repentance)

A table containing items needed for a church service. (Altar)

The first temple. (Tabernacle)

What did God give people for life? (Commandments)

Read the keyword. (obedience)

What is obedience? (This is a quick, joyful fulfillment of the will.) Obedience is an extraordinary word. What words is it associated with? (It is associated with the words “joy” and “happiness”. Those people who followed the rules given by God lived happily and in joy.)

Reverence is expressed in obedience.

SLIDE 32.

2. Old Testament stories.

But not all people always remained obedient and respected their parents. Because of this, they lost joy and happiness left them.

The sons of Noah, whom God saved from the flood in a wooden ark, were called Shem, Ham and Japheth. Noah tilled the land and planted a vineyard.

Read the Bible story on page 87

SLIDE 33.

How did Ham show his irreverence? (He laughed at his father.)

What did Shem and Japheth do?

Why did Noah condemn Ham's actions? (Because he acted disrespectfully.)

Why did Noah bless Shem and Japheth?

His son, Ham, turned out to be disrespectful in this case to his father, and therefore was deprived of the blessing, and his offspring were condemned to slavery. To Shem and Japheth, because they covered the nakedness of their father, a special blessing of God was announced, that in the descendants of Shem the true faith and the Church would be preserved; Japheth - that his offspring will be very widespread and will subsequently unite with the offspring of Shem

(Blessing – God's mercy)

Guess what. Where did the word “rudeness” come from in the Russian language?

(On behalf of Ham. The proper name has become a common noun)
(Rudeness is a common name for rudeness and disrespect.)

What kind of people are called boorish, and their actions are called boorish.

(People who are arrogant, rude, and disrespectful to other people are called boors)
- Was Ham’s act beautiful or ugly? Explain why you think so.

VI.VideoSLIDE 34

SLIDE 35.

VII. Work in pairs.

Each of you will take the oak leaf lying on your desk and complete the following task:

Write down on a piece of paper things in which you can show respect to your family and friends, and complete the sentence:

I must…

SLIDE 36.

(You must say hello, ask about your well-being, listen to your elders, do not interrupt, wish good night to loved ones, do not be insolent, do not argue, be grateful for the care and love of your parents, love your parents, help them, do not deceive, etc.)

VIII. Lesson summary.
SLIDE 37.

I wish you to remember the basic principles of a Christian family and do everything that depends on you. They protected the health of their relatives, respected and loved them. You need to study in your parents' home, otherwise love will not take root in your future families. If our families are strong and happy, then our Motherland will be strong and rich.

Take care of each other,

Warm with kindness.

Take care of each other

Don't let us offend

Take care of each other

Forget the fuss

And in a moment of leisure

Stay close together.

Let warmth, comfort and mutual understanding always reign in your home, sacredly preserve the honor of your family.

SLIDE 38 --39.

Homework:

– I ask you to re-read the textbook material at home, pages 86–87. Invite parents or older generations to read. Together, try to answer the questions on page 87, paying special attention to the last question: “Tell me what traditions you have in your family.” You can use photographs when telling stories in class.

SLIDE 40.

“We lack all-forgiving love”
Video clip from the Lipetsk diocesan television studio “Light of the World”
Poems by Priest Nikolai Mololkin, sung by Gennady Kuzovkov.
Script, direction - mon. Agathon (Schneider);
camera - Evgenia Khridina, Viktor Savelyev;
editing - Ekaterina Tambovskaya.

. SLIDE 41.

No family is possible if there is no love.

“Love holds up the whole world”(slide number 11). A world without love is impossible, unthinkable. But how do we understand “held by love”? (children's answers) Love is like an invisible glue that connects hearts and holds them together tightly. How to distinguish true love, how not to be deceived? After all, sometimes a monster is hidden behind a person’s beautiful appearance, and vice versa, behind the outward inconspicuousness - a devoted and loving heart. True love, as the Apostle Paul said:“Excuses everything, believes everything, hopes for everything, endures everything.”(slide 12). Let's figure out what it means to excuse everything? (forgives the mistakes of his loved one, does not condemn him for them, believes everything. This means he completely trusts the one he loves). Hopes for everything... (means believes in the best). He endures everything... (any hardships and adversities seem easy to him with his loved one).

True Christian love in the family should be like this.

You know, you were lucky enough to know that in the history of Russia there were such families, and I would like to tell you about one of them.

In Russia there was a family that strived for the ideal of a real Christian family. This is the Family of the last Emperor Nicholas II.(slide No. 13) This family strived for an ideal relationship with each other. They raised 4 daughters and a son. We taught them to love family and their homeland. They lived based on the commandments of God.

What is the most important commandment?(Honor your father and your mother.)A person who loves his parents can never be a bad person. We will learn more about this family in other defense industry lessons, but now(Smolin Artyom) He will read a poem to you from the diaries of the Empress Alexandra Feodorovna.

(reading the verse “Give love”)(slide number 14)

Give love. Take a look around.
Help
To those with whom you happen to be
to go in life,
Decorate their days as best you can,
So that it would be easier for them to bear their life’s cross.

Give love. Take a look -
your brother is away
Desperate, one is ready to commit a sin.
You extend your hand to him, and he’s glad
He will live a clean, new life.

Guys, what do you think, is there a holiday dedicated to family in Russia?(answers)

Yes, in Russia there is a holiday “Day of Family, Love and Fidelity”, which is celebrated in the summer - July 8th. On this day, festive events and concerts are held in Russian cities, and couples who got married on July 8 are especially honored. And also on this day especially Saints Peter and Fevronia are revered.(slide number 15)

(Once upon a time in the city of Murom, in ancient years, Prince Peter ruled with his wife Fevronia, who once healed him of a terrible illness. And since then they have been inseparable.

Now we will watch a video clip.(during the video, a board with family photos opens)

I think you have already guessed which flower is a symbol of love and fidelity? (chamomile)

Look at the daisies on your tables. Imagine that chamomile is your family. What should be the most important thing in a family? Write this on chamomile petals. (individual work)

Now attach your daisies to a photo of your family.

At home, decorate our album page: paste a photo of your family, a daisy and write a mini essay about your family

I saw…

I found out…

I felt…(slide 16)