How to determine if a girl likes you. How to understand when a girl wants a kiss? Do girls want sex and how often?

Perhaps every young man at least once in his life is faced with the following question: “Are my feelings mutual?” Of course, you can ask the girl directly. But what to do if there are too many doubts, and you don’t want to make yourself look stupid?

In this case, the girl’s unconscious actions come to the rescue, which she herself may not notice. But knowing about their existence and being able to read them, you can easily determine whether you really have a chance for reciprocity.

Signs that she loves you

All unconscious human actions can be divided into 3 groups: behavior, gaze, gestures. Let's look at each one separately.

Behavior

In order to find out if a girl is in love, you need to observe how she behaves. Here are the main signs:

Interest. A girl who cares is usually very happy to hear about your affairs. A sure sign is if a girl tries to ask someone else about you, asks mutual friends about your condition. If a girl is always ready to help you, regardless of her own affairs, then most likely she likes you.
Communication. A girl who likes you will look for communication with you. She will prefer talking with you to talking with her friend.
Pay attention: if a girl stays close to you at all general meetings and tries to talk, this is a sure sign.
Self-sacrifice. Do you know that she is terribly afraid of drowning, but she boldly climbs into the boat after you? She definitely likes you.
A girl in love very often puts the guy’s interests first, forgetting about her own for a while. But remember that the girl will expect the same from you, don’t disappoint her.
Present. A gift for no reason is a reason to think about the nature of your relationship. This is the most obvious way for a girl to convey that she likes a guy. If you were given a handmade item into which a lot of time and effort was invested, this can be a help for a long, serious relationship.
Jealousy. Did you catch a look of displeasure when you started talking to her friend? You helped a nice stranger on the street, and then you can’t understand what upset her so much? She's just jealous of you. Even if you are not in a relationship yet, a girl in love does not want to share you with others.
Care. If you are sick, and she comes to you much more often than all her other friends, if she tries to take care of your condition, she absolutely definitely likes you. All girls have a maternal instinct that makes them take care of people. But only about special, dear people.
Happiness. There is one more, perhaps the least obvious sign. But it’s also worth paying attention to: a girl in love (even if unrequited) looks like a little sun. She rejoices at every little thing, and it seems that nothing can upset her.

Sight

You are capable catch her eye on you when you are in a large company? See if this happens often. If at least three or four times during your meeting, the girl is definitely interested in you, she wants to look at you.
If when I look at you The pupils of a woman in love enlarge, then this is a true physiological sign. But please, don’t try to look at the changes in girls with dark eyes. Even if you succeed, you risk embarrassing or frightening your chosen one.
You turned your gaze to the girl and saw how she suddenly looked in the other direction? This means that she is in love with you and is embarrassed by it. She wants to look at you, wants to date you, but she is afraid that you will not reciprocate her feelings.

Sign language

Touch.A girl in love will constantly seek touches of the object of feelings, often even unconsciously to herself. She will sit closer to you in cafes, in all attractions, in the cinema and in other places. For what? Hoping that at some point your hands will meet.
If a girl is constantly trying to straighten your hair, slap you on the shoulder, or remove an invisible speck of dust from you, you can safely confess your feelings to her - and you will probably receive reciprocity.
Excitement. For any woman, meeting the objects of her desire is a very exciting event. By looking at her at this moment, you can easily understand whether she feels something for you.
A girl in love may have a slight blush on her cheeks and rapid breathing; she will not know where to place her hands and may even answer inappropriately. In order to notice these subtle, almost invisible signs, you need to develop good powers of observation.
Flirting. Girls are big coquettes. And it’s not surprising that a girl who is in love with you will flirt with you. Flirting is a sure way to determine sympathy, to “test the waters.” How can you tell if a girl is flirting? A sure sign of flirting is compliments. They can be either direct or veiled “woven” into the conversation.
Often, when a girl flirts, she teases and teases you. Don't be offended - this is a sign that she likes you. Of course, provided that the girl does not do this often and only on topics that you make fun of yourself.

An equally important sign of flirting are gestures and movements. If a girl “shoots” her eyes in a conversation, twirls her curls and smiles sweetly, be sure that she likes you and is flirting with you.
Rapport. Another sign is that the girl unconsciously “mirrors” your poses. She can keep pace with you, sit in a cafe in the same position, hold her hands in the same way - all this will be a sign of sympathy.
Personal space. If a girl is calm about your intrusions into her personal space, this will also be a sign of her sympathy for you.
What is invasion of personal space? This is if you touch her hair or cheek without her permission, if you suddenly take a bite of her ice cream, or if you take a ringing phone out of her purse to give it to her. Did the girl endure all this? She really really likes you.

Signs of indifference on the part of a woman

Here are some main signs that indicate that a girl doesn't love you:

If a girl calls you not for the purpose of chatting, but only in cases when she needs something, this could be a sign - she's just taking advantage of you.
But feel the difference. If you chatted with a girl for an hour, and during the conversation about books she asked you to nail the bookshelf, then she is probably just looking for a meeting. And if she called and started the conversation with the words “fix”, “borrow” or “buy”, then she is completely indifferent to you.
Young woman tells you about his relationships with guys? This means that you are only a friend to her, and she is in love with someone else. If she liked you, she (even when dating someone else) would not remind you of it once again.
If you have already met, but the relationship has already deteriorated and you decided to break it off, look at the girl’s reaction. If she is sincerely upset, it means she still has feelings for you and everything can be restored. If she doesn't care, it means the relationship has outlived its usefulness, and you did the right thing by deciding to break it off.
But if, under the threat of separation, a girl suddenly begins to show such interest in you as she has never had before, this is a reason to think - maybe she is just using you and does not want to lose a source of money or help?

In this video you can see examples of how a girl in love behaves:

Now you have all the information you need. You just need to take a close look at the girl. She will definitely give herself away by word, gesture or deed.

When you really like a girl, you really want to see signs of reciprocal feelings. Female psychology is difficult to understand and unpredictable, but you can study the basic signals of a lady's sympathy.

How do girls hint about sympathy?

A girl is a mysterious creature, but finding out that she likes you is not so difficult. The main thing is not to invent something that does not exist, but to carefully monitor the behavior of the fair sex and note for yourself certain signs of sympathy.

Each person will have their own, but some common beginning of emerging feelings is noted in all women. Practice shows that girls begin to show signs of attention already in the second or third week from the beginning of their acquaintance. And some especially impatient ladies may start doing this even earlier. Girls want to attract the guy they like using special behavior, but it can be difficult to determine this to the object of their desire. Inexperienced or not very attentive guys may not even notice for years that a girl likes them.

Basic knowledge of psychology will help you check the feelings of a shy stranger or work colleague. Even the most secretive woman cannot completely hide her sympathy.

Modest ladies hint that they like a guy like this:

they often watch the object of passion, and if their gaze is noticed, they immediately look away;
blush when a man dear to their heart appears;
look for information about the guy they like among friends and acquaintances;
try to look beautiful every day;
they begin to get lost and shy in the company of a pleasant man.

More assertive ladies are distinguished by their behavior when an object of sympathy appears:

can take the initiative: start a conversation on their own, walk past, playfully swaying their hips;
“shoot” with your eyes;
pass notes;
find a phone number and contacts on social networks and write first.

In fact, strange women can be very inventive. You need to see the signs of their attention in time. Then it will be much easier to approach and get acquainted.

If we talk about the conversation, then in it you can also trace romantic vibes, which, at first glance, may be completely invisible. In conversation, girls hint at sympathy as follows:

they give compliments (even if not everyone understands them);
always laugh at the jokes of a handsome man;
listen to the conversation and try not to interrupt;
They prefer to remain somewhat aloof during general conversation, observe from the sidelines and smile.

Sometimes ladies can act diametrically opposite when they like a guy. They may completely ignore him or even behave aggressively. This way they relieve the accumulated tension from unrequited feelings. Just as boys pull girls’ pigtails and tease them when they like them, girls at a conscious age can choose this battle tactic.

Therefore, there is no need to put an end to a relationship when a girl seems to hate a man. There is a high probability that she is in love.

When the same one appears, any lady will immediately put down her phone or work and devote at least a few minutes to her potential suitor. She simply will not be able to behave differently due to the surging excitement.

Also an obvious hint of sympathy for a certain guy is flirting and making advances exclusively with him. The lady will not show interest in other representatives of the stronger sex.

How else can a woman hint about her sympathy? There are many ways, but the main ones are:

periodic requests for help, which undoubtedly help to start a conversation and give time for communication;
treating a lady to her signature dishes characterizes a lady as a good housewife and gives a man a reason to think about her candidacy for his soul mate;
questions about well-being show the girl’s participation in the guy’s life;
the girl asks mutual friends and colleagues about the man, although she knows that they can tell him about it;
cute gifts with a hint: mugs with hearts for February 23, cards for Valentine's Day - all this is a direct hint of sympathy;
jokes addressed to a man are an indispensable attribute of sympathy;
In the presence of the man of her dreams, the lady straightens her hair because she is worried about how she looks.

In addition to such obvious signs of sympathy, there are also hidden ones. They are not always visible to the naked eye, so they must be carefully examined and evaluated so as not to be confused with anything else.

Studying body language

In modern society, it is not customary for girls to openly express their sympathy. Firstly, a man, according to tradition, must seek the hand and heart of a lady, and secondly, you don’t want to stroke a man’s pride and get into trouble. A rejected woman feels too depressed, so she tries to attract attention with cunning and various tricks.

To determine a girl's sympathy, it is better to pay attention to the nonverbal signals that she gives. Signs of sympathy can include both gestures and glances.

By gestures

If a girl tries with all her might to portray cold aloofness, then the subconscious will still (sooner or later) give her away. Some gestures and facial expressions can 100% indicate emotions that indicate sympathy. It is important to identify them in time.

Turning the body or just the legs towards the preferred guy. When we like a person, we involuntarily open up to him, this is expressed precisely in the direction of our body in his direction. When a woman closes the distance between her and her intended partner, she doesn’t even notice how she turns her legs in his direction, even those bent at the knees, points her toe, and can playfully wiggle her shoe.
The rotation of the body completely speaks of the girl’s special affection or openness. The mood for romance here is completely obvious if there is also a smile and light touches. But more on this a little later.
Particularly brave women can even touch the guy they like with their feet, for example, while sitting at the same table with him. Such nonverbal communication takes on a certain erotic connotation. Here you don’t even need to guess whether the girl likes you or not. The answer is clear: yes, and even very much so.
Constant body contact. Affection for this man is also manifested by the desire to touch him as often as possible. Nothing reflects romantic affection more than constant touching of a young man. So, a woman puts her hand on a man’s shoulder when talking, touches his chest, as if jokingly, pushing him away, tries to lightly hug him when passing by, as if he is stopping her from passing.

If such a manner of communication can be traced from a woman, then she is either a flighty coquette or is really very interested in a particular man. How to accurately determine this? You need to pay attention to whether a given representative of the fair sex behaves this way with all men or only with one specific one. If the second option is suitable, then sympathy is most likely present.

It is also easy to check your feelings in the following way: you need to start acting in this direction yourself. Hug her or just periodically touch neutral parts of the body. There are two reaction options: stormy and romantic.

In the first case, the girl will probably begin to be feignedly indignant, and in the second, she will play along and provoke her to repeat such actions. When a woman is unpleasant about a given young man, she simply avoids the touch, moving away or changing seats.

Hair straightening. For a long time, twirling a curl of hair around a finger has been considered a sign of a girl’s true sympathy. But not only this gesture with hair, but also any game with it speaks of female affection. A lady can preen herself in front of the mirror when the desired man appears, or she can whip up the volume of her strands with her hand. A girl can also tuck her hair behind her ear and stroke her head due to sincere sympathy. To follow these eloquent actions, you need to catch the girl by surprise. That is, suddenly go to where she is. Otherwise, she may be confident in her appearance and not show such gestures.
Movement of lips and legs. There are some signs that can clearly outline a girl’s preference for a certain person. These instinctive movements will help you quickly understand what's what.

Lips are one of the most sensitive areas for any woman. Therefore, when talking and looking closely at the object of desire, she will bite them or lightly lick them. Most of the time she will keep her mouth slightly open. And a pleasant half-smile will remain on your lips. It is unlikely that a girl will be able to restrain these gestures when a young man she likes approaches at a distance of less than half a meter. Therefore, it is advisable to provoke her in such a way as to carefully assess her condition with such an invasion of her comfort zone.

Feet, in addition to pointing towards the man you like, can also tell a lot about the lady’s liking. When a handsome young man is close to her, a woman's thighs (often involuntarily) tighten.

It is quite difficult to notice such a gesture, especially if this part of the body is hidden by loose clothing. But summer time with short dresses will help you spot it exactly.

Posture. When we want to appear more important, we most often monitor the position of our body. Likewise, girls, wanting to attract a guy, will definitely straighten their shoulders and chest, pull in their stomach and begin to walk more gracefully. Everyone wants to look their best in the eyes of their potential soulmate, so such a gesture clearly shows the intentions of the beautiful person. If a girl, before the arrival of a certain guy, stood as if nothing had happened, leaning on something in a relaxed position, then when an attractive male appears on the horizon, she will definitely straighten up, throw back her hair and take an important pose. By nature, these non-verbal signs indicate that she wants to be noticed.
Embarrassment. Even the strongest girls cannot completely hide their embarrassment from the sudden arrival or proximity of the object of passion. So, a lady can start moving something in her hands: a piece of paper, a handkerchief. She may also start to blush, say stupid things, or stutter a little.

When a handsome young man is too close, the play of hormones begins, so it is almost impossible to stop the process of non-verbal actions.

Of course, in some girls they are more pronounced, and in others - less, but they are always present. The main thing is to see them in time.

Imitation. The involuntary repetition of the young man’s gestures, gait, and facial expressions directly indicates the strong sympathy of the fair sex. This marker allows you to know for sure about your feelings with 100% accuracy. There is no need to wait for the moment and arrange hours of surveillance. It’s enough to just sit back and see if she repeats the same position. A girl will not follow a man exactly, she will simply partially copy his behavior. Tilt of the head, body, light touches, but in the same direction, with the same parts of the body. Interestingly, these gestures arise involuntarily. That is, the lady does not even control herself during their playback, which speaks in favor of this method of monitoring the feelings of this lady.

By look

A look speaks louder than any words. It’s quite difficult to tell by looking that a girl really likes a certain guy. But in any case, it’s worth trying to follow the play of her eyes.

Flirting with the eyes is a type of flirting that has been known since time immemorial. How a lady looks at the man she adores:

looks at him from under lowered eyelashes and smiles sweetly;
looks away to the side, as if she noticed him completely by accident;
looks back at the object and may smile again or laugh embarrassedly.

It is better not to ignore this sign by supporting such an innocent game. And then come up and meet the girl, so as not to waste precious time.

While in a crowd, you can also check with a glance whether a girl likes a certain young man. It's easy to do this:

you need to be constantly visible (for quite a long time);
then you need to disappear, but in such a way that there is visual access: if a lady is interested, having lost sight of a nice guy, she will start peeking out from behind everyone to find him again.

Then you need to be in sight again to see the woman’s reaction. If she calms down and starts chatting casually with someone again, she definitely has sympathy.

There is also a more radical method of checking by looking: you can come close to the girl and look into her eyes. An embarrassed lady in love will look away or look defiantly into the eyes with a smile. But (sooner or later) she will still lower her eyes in embarrassment. This sign indicates that the woman recognizes the dominance of the man she likes and agrees with his dominance.

Women who experience certain feelings for a particular man have one physiological sign when he approaches - their pupils dilate.

Therefore, you need to suddenly find yourself next to the lady and carefully look into her eyes, preferably in good lighting. Then it will be very easy to notice such a reaction of the body.

Communication on a social network

If a girl has been communicating with a guy on social networks for a long time, but does not openly talk about her sympathy, then it is difficult not to worry. On the one hand, it seems that she just wants to be friends and does not want a romantic relationship at all, and on the other hand, if a lady spends a lot of time on correspondence, then it is unlikely that she wants to limit herself to exclusively friendly communication.

In general, a face-to-face conversation is much more exciting than correspondence. Here you can carefully think about each phrase, not say it out loud and not look the guy in the eyes at all.

Therefore, to some extent, on the Internet you can quickly decide to show sympathy. In addition, due to the relaxed state in the process of correspondence, you can quickly reveal your feelings completely by accident.

There are a lot of distinctive features of a woman who really likes a guy, and you can find them in correspondence.

The girl is interested in the guy’s well-being and mood not “for show.” The lady is really worried, asking about all the details of the day. If trouble occurs, she laments about it and tries in every possible way to support. Women, in principle, are characterized by care and attention. These qualities are inherent in them by nature and they are aimed, as a rule, at the potential head of the family.
Comes up with affectionate nicknames or constantly uses diminutive names. She is afraid to speak directly about her feelings or does not want to take the initiative into her feminine hands. But a lady can try to provoke a guy to take the first step in just this way.

Wants to learn more about hobbies. Girls find out about this for several reasons: they want to find an approach, they draw an analogy with their passions, they want to try to become interested in the same thing.
Gives compliments. This is a very clear sign of a beautiful lady's sympathy. Compliments can be obvious and hidden. It depends on the degree of trust in communication and the girl’s emancipation. Most often they talk about appearance and pleasant character traits.
She gets worried if a guy stays late somewhere or doesn’t answer for a long time. There are two signs of sympathy in the excitement of correspondence. Firstly, the girl will really worry about what is dear to her. And secondly, she misses it when a guy doesn’t go online for a long time, and wants to chat with him again quickly.

Sends his photos. A direct hint of a desire for a relationship is the addition of a photo in the context of a conversation.
Provides advice on many issues. Basically, if a guy likes him, then he automatically becomes an authority for the girl. Which dress suits you best, how to make peace with a friend or mother, how to pass a test faster - this is just an incomplete list of possible questions from a lady in love. This is a clear sign of trust and romantic feelings towards this man.
Tries to respond on time or warns that she will be busy. She simply does not want to lose trust and appreciates any moment spent together, even if only in correspondence. Typically, girls who are not particularly interested in a given young man can be online for hours, but not respond to a message or answer in monosyllables. You must definitely notice such punctuality and understand that this is a clear sign of sympathy.
Takes the man's side in almost any issue. No matter what the young man says and no matter what he complains about, the young lady in love will probably stand up for him and scold everyone who offended him. This position is very flattering for men.

Of course, all representatives of the fair sex are very different, as are their signals of sympathy.

When solving the mystery of how to understand that a girl likes a guy, it is worth taking into account both the described signs and an individual approach. Some ladies are more reserved, others are sociable and open.

After searching for obvious and hidden signs of female sympathy, it is very easy to get confused in them. How to understand that your clouded consciousness is not deceiving you? For this, there is a huge amount of advice from psychologists and simply experienced men who have always been popular with the opposite sex.

Surely there are only two ways to determine a girl’s sympathy:

when she said so herself;
inviting her on a date and voicing your preferences.

If the first option is delayed, then you need not to hesitate and take the initiative. Without taking the first step on your own, you can forever lose your chance at happiness.

You need to listen to yourself and find out if this girl is really the one. Wasting your time on a lady who is not suitable in character and other spiritual characteristics is, to say the least, irrational. Don't miss the opportunity. If a woman has clearly shown sympathy, you need to respond in time in order to develop the relationship further. Fate often gives us a chance, but we do not notice or lose sight of it.

There is no need to put on a false mask when communicating. To be yourself means to find yourself, sooner or later, a person who will accept you as you are, with all your advantages and disadvantages. But looking for problems in the form of an unsuitable passion is wrong. You should also relax and enjoy life. Then everything should work out, since fate is favorable to those who love life.

A nervous and always sad man can hardly please a girl, but a cheerful man attracts, like a magnet, equally cheerful people, in particular beautiful ladies.

A man should always try to look good and smell good. After all, appearance is the first impression, a basic requirement and an indicator of self-love. A rich inner world is wonderful, but combined with neatness, a man will be simply magnificent. You also need to get enough sleep. Healthy sleep affects not only the condition of the body, but also its appearance. In addition, a well-rested man is much more witty, jokes and communicates on any topic with ease. Therefore, girls will definitely like him more.

Greetings gentlemen, Alexander Panferov is in touch and today I will describe how to understand that a girl is excited and wants you, and also whether she wants sex or is it just flirting. I warn you right away that all the signals below should be considered comprehensively and in context.

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Often girls imitate sexual signals in order to simply achieve what they want through flirting and take control of a man’s mind. Yes, when we think about sex, we lose our vigilance and sanity, to put it mildly. Girls know about this and happily use it.

Sometimes such signals are even unconscious

As long as a man wants a girl, he is controlled and wants to please her. It was as if we were hinted throughout our childhood that if you want to fuck..., excuse me, sleep with a girl, you need to look after her, give her gifts, be nice, give compliments.

I'll disappoint you guys, this is not true. Such a scheme often only delays or even eliminates the moment of sexual intimacy. When a girl wants sex, she experiences similar sensations; a girl will fly over the ocean for the sake of good sex. But they approach the choice of a partner more selectively + social frameworks and beliefs about everything.

The guy is looking for a new one, and the girl is looking for a better one. Remember this phrase. But that’s not about that now. As I already said, we men are approximately 8 times worse at reading non-verbal signals. If we saw women's lust, we could take advantage of it too. Not for mercantile purposes like a woman, purely platonic, as befits a man)) In general, two people would be satisfied. And so we went to analyze the signals

Signals are fake or meaningless

The girl put on a sexy dress- maybe she’s just used to looking good, it’s stupid to think that this is especially for you. And a large neckline is not a symbol of her accessibility; it is quite possible that she is aware of her beauty and has learned to command male behavior.

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Talks about a breakup— either she’s just stupid or she’s teasing, but she’s still stupid. This is a topic that is unpleasant for most men. She of course implies that she is free. But who likes to think about those who fucked her... loved her before.

A woman can look at you intently, and at that moment imagine how you fuck her...

He keeps his gaze on you for a long time- interest is focused on you, okay - she seems to like you! But the fact that she is ready to sleep with you, alas, does not mean.

Plays with hair- yes, these are very mediocre, but still sexual signals. At this time, the signal is outdated, as it is used simply as a technique to attract male attention by a girl. It's often just flirting.

Playing with decorations- used to be considered a sexual signal, but I don’t take it into account. These fine motor skills are often used for calming. It is more likely that the girl is simply nervous or shy. maybe, of course, because he wants you. But it’s better not to take this signal into account.

How to understand that a girl is excited and wants a man?

TOP 20 clear signs that a woman is ready:

Neck Showing - Baring the neck is an almost instinctive sexual signal that symbolizes trust and submission. In the animal world, the neck is a weak point; wolves bite into the neck of their enemies to kill. This gesture indirectly means that the girl is putting herself in your hands.
Stroking is sexual stimulation. Pleasant sensations from tactile touches. And it doesn’t matter if she’s stroking you or herself when you see it.
Invasion of your personal space - she goes for rapprochement. a direct and obvious signal of approach. But it may not mean lust.
Random touches are random only for you.
Tilt of the body - reaches towards the object of interest.
Provocative questions - tilt your thinking, make you sexually daring. Congratulations, you are rocking emotionally. Maybe they're just teasing.
Sexual themes - you are teased and tempted to think about sex in obvious ways.
A girl's sexually aggressive behavior means that you missed all the previous signals and she does not intend to waste time. Knows what he wants.
Licking lips is a symbol of swollen (excited) labia. Most girls are not aware of this, but use this technique.
She sits on you, presses herself, rubs against you - she’s almost trying to fuck you... show some activity already.
She is not embarrassed to be alone with you - this means that the girl trusts you and does not exclude the fact of sexual intimacy.
The girl puts her hands between her legs - a gesture of restraining sexual tension. The gesture is indecent for women, which means it is often done unconsciously. Trying to control himself. This is a very powerful signal that the girl wants you, the ship has probably already leaked, well, you understand.
Playing with hair - yes, these are very mediocre, but still sexual signals. The girl is a coquette, the gesture is as outdated as this concept.
Showing your wrists - for example when smoking.
Demonstration of armpits is as old as playing with hair, but these gestures (13,14,15) retain their relevance as sexual signals, since they are less often reproduced by girls consciously.
Eyes - a playful, lively look, slightly closed eyes, brilliant fucking... Well, that's what I was often told. It is difficult at first to understand that a girl wants you by looking at you. Understanding what the eyes are saying comes only with experience of communication and with the development of the “Calibration” skill. One sage of seduction said: “Look for the devil in her eyes.”
Trying to look after you - helpfulness is not flirting, it means that the girl really wants to please you in many ways. She cooks for you, gives you a massage, puts things in order, gives you something, even if it’s insignificant. This also includes the fact that the girl respects you. This is a good prerequisite for sex. Of course, there are exceptions, as with any rule, and maybe your home is just unbearably dirty, so you need to clean it up.
I came to meet you in stockings - my favorite signal, I love stockings. This is their weapon of seduction, a good signal.
Steals food from your plate - girls are happy to share food with a man they like. And they are more likely to refuse the offer of a person who is unattractive in her opinion.
She is embarrassed by you and blushes when communicating - “if you can make her embarrassed, you can sleep with her today” is an old saying in seduction circles. A blush on the cheeks is a great signal.
Gives you compliments - as we know, this is not quite the norm for a girl, she shows open interest in you and admiration.

Well, I wanted 20, but I got carried away, there are a lot more of them.

There are exceptions to any rule, and signals must be considered in context, and it’s good if they are groups of sexual signals. 1 or 2 sexual signals alone may not mean anything at all.

Do girls want sex and how often?

Believe me, they want it more than we do.

As I like to say, the phrase is absolutely justified and verified.

Girls are just as horny animals as we men.

Everything is equal. Social norms, of course, restrain women's behavior, but in their heads there is the same lust. One of my friends said:

If I woke up in the morning and didn’t masturbate, the day wasted.

2 weeks without sex and a lamppost turns me on.

Another quote from a woman’s mouth:

Yes, I want it every day, several times a day

Here I want to note, and this is important, these phrases do not apply to those guys who look mediocre, unkempt, fat, insecure, the reality is that you extremely rarely become the embodiment of women’s sexual fantasies. Therefore, sports will help you, a good hairstyle, style and tan. And yes, drive away any losers who will say that appearance is not important for a man. All the handsome guys, the freaks laugh at you.

She doesn’t necessarily become a world-class model, but she should have basic care and her own style.

Sorry if I overdid it, but I don’t care. I just want to touch some of the characters to motivate them. My intentions are pure and noble. There are no criteria that describe the correct facial features of a man, other than the usual proportions and symmetry, but the criteria that describe the number of abs are obvious.

In general, whoever does not strive for beauty loses most of the women in life. They have to be cunning, talk things down, cajole, but the handsome guys just take it and that’s it. Anything they want. Handsome people are believed more, listened to better, and many more bonuses. Being beautiful doesn't mean being stupid. Choose the path of development, your life, it’s up to you to decide.

Test the passage above through a woman's opinion, so you will know its truthfulness through their eyes.

How to understand that a girl wants to kiss you?

She lingers close to your face and looks into your eyes. The distance is sufficient to lean in and kiss. You did not understand? She expects this from you, kiss her already! In general, stop looking for the right moment, just kiss already.

How to understand that an older woman wants you?

Everything is the same, only they have even fewer problems. Libido in girls only increases with age, and so on until menopause. At the age of 40, if a woman wants sex, she behaves much like a 17-year-old boy, only much more confident and wiser.

Social pressure on girls

Girls are vulgar, but not in men's societies. remember this

Girls are always afraid of male judgment. And therefore, even if a girl really wants sex, she hides it. Standards of behavior, such labels in society as chastity, slut, whore, slut, nymphomaniac.

What good girl would like such labels, even chastity now sounds unpleasant “Virgin” as if there was something wrong with her. That’s why girls don’t discuss vulgarity in the company of men, but they don’t choose words among themselves. And of course, depending on what kind of company it is, it’s a group of men.

How can I refuse if I don't want her?

Hahaha guys)) Yes, this happens, I understand. Just be gallant and try not to offend her. She will still be offended!)) Girls are not so used to rejection, it hurts them terribly. Yes))

There is no need to do this; such views usually, on the contrary, bind you. Everything must be strict

If you are going to refuse, then you don’t need to squeeze her and excite her. And he clearly said once that you don’t want it now and that’s enough. If you don’t understand, take her by the forearms and repeat, looking straight into her eyes. If that doesn't work, call a taxi and send her home. In general, be cool. The man said, period, you don’t even need to explain anything. Just don't and control your behavior. If you say one thing and show another, she won’t believe you.

At such moments, you don’t think how to understand that a girl wants you)) When she tries to fuck you, excuse the expression. Favorite paragraph in this article)))) Thanks for the questions guys. Girls are unpredictable, after you don’t give her, she may even fall in love with you, she may even hate you. Although these are just 2 sides of the same coin.

As always, please look in context and try to get the gist. Once you grasp the essence, you will no longer need to analyze each gesture in detail.

Sincerely, Alexander Panferov.
Especially for men's university 2017

7. She raises an eyebrow

This is an implicit sign of strong sympathy, so it should be taken into account in conjunction with others.

8. Position of her hands

If a girl crosses her arms over her chest, you can be sure that either she is cold or she is cold towards you.

9. Position of her palms

Another clue that the girl is interested is her open and upturned palms.

This position of the palms shows openness and readiness to develop relationships, while clenched fists are a bad sign.

10. She leans towards you

If she leans towards you when she doesn't really need to, take it as a sign. For example, she may lean in under the pretext that it is difficult for her to hear your words.

11. Showing off your body

Women know that men cannot resist women's charms, so a sure sign that a girl wants you is to show your loved one the open area of her chest, legs, and shoulders.

12. Physical contact

Did she casually touch your hand or hit you on the knee while laughing? Women don't touch people they don't like.

A girl may not be into makeup, but if being around you thanks to cosmetics increases her beauty level, don’t forget to take note of this.

In addition, her outfit, which is, for example, a tight dress, is an additional argument to think about.

16. She initiates communication

If a girl does not wait for you to call her, but calls you first, it means that she is very interested in you and in the development of the relationship.

True, this happens very rarely, and much more often the girl initiates the development of communication implicitly.

For example, she may spontaneously give you 2 flyers to a nightclub, without really explaining anything, in the hope that you will invite her with you.

17. She invests in communication

The girl takes the initiative to do something for you, offers to help or treats you with something, for example, coffee.

18. She asks if you live alone

Why do you think she might ask you this? Right to make sure no one will disturb you when you are alone.

19. She talks about your possible girlfriend

This is a classic. When the interlocutor says something like “Your girlfriend should like this!”, the purpose of the words spoken, of course, is not related to concern for your passion, which, perhaps, does not exist at all.

It's just that your new friend is trying to determine your status to make sure that you are a guy who is not burdened with a relationship, and she is not wasting her time.

20. She makes it clear that she has no one

Has she told you more than once that she doesn't have a boyfriend? And why do you think? It’s clear that the girl wants you.

21. She initiates conversations on intimate topics

If a girl is not a journalist on the staff of Eros magazine, it is unlikely that she will raise intimate topics in communication with you.

Women won't have these conversations with men they don't see as romantic partners.

22. She teases you

If a girl gently teases you, it means the flirt switch is set to the “On” position.

23. She tickles you

A girl wants to touch you, but doesn't want it to be too obvious, so trying to tickle you should count as attraction.

24. She can't look at you without smiling.

A smile is one of the main indicators in trying to figure out a girl’s attitude towards you.

When a girl smiles at you, it is a good sign that she is feeling positive and enjoying your company.

If she flirts with you and smiles constantly, then most likely she wants you.

25. She kisses you

This does not mean that your friend will sleep with you 100%, but she is clearly preparing a springboard, so 99% is already yours.

As a result of the kiss, the girl will find out whether she wants more, so give her a really worthwhile kiss.

26. She notices details

It's all in the details. If a girl notices that you have a fashionable haircut, a toned torso, or a delicious smell of eau de toilette, this is a clear indicator that she is breathing unevenly in your direction.

27. She compliments you

How to understand that a girl wants you? Listen to what she says. Especially if a friend gives you gifts, tells you that she likes the way you look, or praises your intelligence, humor and your talents.

28. She's looking for a compliment

A girl might ask you: “What do you think about my hair?” or “How do you like my dress?” Satisfy your interlocutor's interest and tell her that she is beautiful.

29. She doesn't look at her phone.

Today, people rarely look away from their mobile gadgets. But if the interlocutor hides her phone and, having entered into a conversation with you, simply forgets about her mobile friend, completely focusing on you, know that there is not much time left before sin.

30. She asks questions

By asking questions, a girl shows that she is interested in you and wants to get to know you better.

31. She laughs at your jokes

If a girl constantly laughs at your jokes, she is definitely attracted to you.

Does this mean that your friend is ready to sleep with you? Most likely not, but you are definitely moving in the right direction.

32. She agrees to do everything you suggest.

Even your most boring proposals seem like a great idea to her. The girl wants to spend time with you, no matter what you do.

33. She shares her food with you

“Take it, try it.” Has this ever happened to you? That's it. No one will share their food with people they don't like.

34. She borrows your clothes

Have you started to notice that your sweater is increasingly hugging the girl’s shoulders, instead of keeping its owner warm?

It might just be cold outside, but most likely your friend wants to feel you closer to her.

35. She texts you at night

If a girl is texting you after midnight, she is thinking about you in a context that is definitely different from a purely friendly one.

Just don’t get ahead of the curve by trying to spice up your correspondence with piquant texts. Let her bring up the topic.

36. She always answers messages

Does a girl always respond to your messages without making you wait long? If so, then soon you will get to know her as closely as possible.

37. She really wants to meet

If a girl herself invites you to meet, especially if you accidentally bump into each other somewhere, she is clearly up to something. Or maybe the girl just wants you.

38. She herself offers to exchange contacts

In this case, the girl wants to get to know you better and, apparently, meet you again. A great sign of her strong interest.

It's great when a girl asks you to exchange phone numbers, because this doesn't happen often.

The girl’s desire to exchange contacts in order to quickly get rid of you is not taken into account.

How to understand that a guy wants a girl? Quite simple. A man is always straightforward in his desires. If he wanted a girl, then she would know about it within 5 minutes. With the fair sex everything is different. Here you need not only to listen to her, but also to carefully study her facial expressions and gestures, because she often gives certain signals in a non-verbal way. So how do you understand that a girl wants you? In this article we will describe the main signs of a woman's sympathy for a man. If at least one of them is present, then you can safely move on to the next stage of relationship development.

1. Appearance

How to understand that a girl wants you? Take a close look at the outfit she wore on her date. If this is provocative clothing (short skirt, dress with a neckline, etc.), then it is quite clear what the woman is carefully hinting at. All that remains is to seize the moment.

2. Lips

How to understand that a girl wants sex? Look at her lips. If she often licks them or slowly runs a drink straw across her lower lip, then her thoughts are focused on sex. Such actions are completely unconscious and mechanical.

A woman may not give clear signals to action at the moment. But you need to understand that her thoughts are not at all occupied with a popular book by a fashionable author or the latest collection of clothes from Prada. If you skillfully turn the conversation into an erotic direction, your chances of having sex with a girl will increase many times over.

3. Legs

Be sure to pay attention to this part of the woman’s body, as well as her hips. If a girl looks in your direction and gently strokes them, then you can rejoice. She definitely wants sex. In your thoughts, the woman is already lying in bed with you. That is, any manipulation of the legs can be considered as a single message: “Look at me and have sex with me.” All you have to do is demonstrate a reciprocal desire and enjoy it.

4. Shoes

How can you tell that a girl wants you by looking at her shoes? It's simple. If she lowers the shoe from her heel and slightly waves it in the air, holding it on her toe, then this is a clear sign of flirting. Moreover, such things happen unconsciously. No woman will deliberately sit and wave her shoes in front of a man. Such a gesture suggests that at such moments she sees in front of her a potential object for sex. But you shouldn’t immediately attack her after what you see. It is likely that the girl simply rubbed her leg. It is better to wait for additional signs to appear and act for sure.

5. Mirror effect

How to understand that a girl wants a relationship? While meeting a guy, she simply repeats and copies some of his movements. Thus, the woman wants to please him. It is worth observing her facial expressions and gestures. If a girl makes movements identical to yours (stroking her hand, tilting her head, etc.), then this is a clear signal that you should not be shy, but take the initiative into your own hands.

6. Touch

To understand whether the fair sex likes you, watch the touches. During a conversation, she may inadvertently touch your shoulder or arm. This is one of the most obvious and distinct signs of her interest and desire. In fact, girls attach more serious importance to touch than men. A woman will touch only in two cases: if she has sent a guy to the friend zone and perceives him as a friend, or if she is attracted to him and is not shy about showing it with her touches. Therefore, first you need to make sure that she views you as a man, and does not consider you just another friend to whom she can cry into her vest.

7. Look

How to understand that a girl wants you? Often it is in a woman’s gaze that one can read her desire. He will naturally be evaluative, so don’t be offended by this. The girl just wants to look at your face, figure and body in detail. That is, sympathy is already present, and she has begun a more detailed study. Well, an erotic look from under half-lowered eyelashes is a direct signal to action. If a woman looks at you this way, then immediately call a taxi and take her to your home.

8. Hair

They are an excellent indicator that helps determine a girl’s intentions regarding your candidacy. If a representative of the fair sex starts playing with her hair, then this is a great sign. The neck and back of the head are one of the main erogenous zones on the female body. So in this case there can be no double interpretation, and she really is sexually attracted to you. However, it is worth paying attention to how a woman touches her hair - she nervously adjusts her hair every second or playfully twirls her lock of hair around her finger. In the first case, the girl is worried and does not know where to put her hands. In the second, she consciously signals her sexual desire.

9. Order salad and water at a restaurant

Or a woman can get by with just a cup of coffee. This doesn't mean she wants to demonstrate her commitment to healthy eating. It’s just that appetite and sex are closely connected in a girl’s head. When a representative of the fair sex overeats heavily, then there can be no talk of any carnal pleasures. After gluttony, her thoughts are occupied with completely different things. But if a girl experiences slight hunger (physical), then the feeling of sexual hunger will be close to her. So, when your companion ordered half the menu at a restaurant and also asked for dessert, you don’t have to expect intimacy from her that evening.

Conclusion

Now you know how to understand that a girl wants you. The signs of this were indicated above. In general, to find out a woman’s true desires, you need not so much to listen to her speech as to track the non-verbal signals of the body. As soon as one or more of the signs listed in the article appear, you should immediately proceed to action!